I feel I am wallowing in ignorance. I just do not really understand how pupils progress from year 7 to sixth form and further education. Ok I know the basics. They take GCSEs then A levels, but I fear there's more to know.
My son is at a grammar school. There seems to be little communication to parents about the bigger picture. I just feel we are somehow expected to know!
For instance, I am not really clear on how imnportant year 9 SATS are. I don't if my son will be allowed to freely choose his GCSE preferences for year 10. How much do his year 9 exam results matter? Will he be allocated GCSE subjects according to how well he does in them? What if he really wants to do a certain subject but does badly in his year 9 exam. And what's all this business about streaming certain maths sets so the maximum grade they can get at GCSE is a 'B'?
I feel I know the primary school system well as ds1 has gone through it. That knowledge really helps me support ds2 who is in year 3 at primary. Also, it's much easier to talk to other parents as there's lots of parent contact at primary school.
I have hardly met any parents at my son's secondary school - far fewer opportunities to meet - and we have only had two parent/teacher evenings in two years, so fewer organised opportunities to chat to the teachers.
I really feel I am floundering now ds1 is about to start year 9. He's the sort of boy who needs to be constantly motivated at home. IME this can only work best if I am sure of the details and ds1 knows I know! Ds1 needs to be kept on course, but I don't know exactly what course we are steering to IYSWIM.
Next term, I will talk to his teachers about my worries but I don't expect to get the full picture from them. IME it is also incredibly useful to talk to outsiders who are familiar with secondary education system and also parents who have gone through the whole process.
I just wondered if I am alone in feeling like this. And if any kind people can offer me some guidance I'd be really grateful.