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Moving schools in Y7

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WaitingListWoes · 06/08/2019 22:19

DC is going into secondary next month, to a very good (state) school (School A) which nonetheless has some significant drawbacks for us, not least of which is the considerable journey to get there. For all sorts of practical reasons (and others, which I’d rather not go into in detail) we’d rather DC went to our much nearer, but unusually oversubscribed in this bulge year, first preference school (School B).

In any of the last 3 years, DC would have comfortably got a place at B by 1st September, but is currently so far down the waiting list that it’s looking extremely unlikely that will happen this year. However it is entirely possible that a place will come up in the Autumn term (we are in London). So... my question is: does anyone have experience - good or bad - of moving schools in Y7? What are the pitfalls, aside from the obvious disruption and practicalities like uniform etc? What should I be considering?

DC currently actively wants to go to School B, even after apparently successful transition days at A, though my feeling is that this is partly nerves (we don’t know anyone going to A, but do know some heading for B). I suspect this will change after the start of term so am prepared for some conflict around this, but take the view that a few weeks is nothing compared with five or seven years and we should still move DC if a place does materialise at B.

FWIW, School A was our 3rd preference and we only put it down as a punt, not expecting to get a place. If we were doing the application process again I would not list it! 2nd choice was even more of a punt and is out of the question now. DH and I have thought about this long and hard, so I don't want this to be about whether it's the right thing to do or not, but would really value your experiences of similar situations. Thanks in advance.

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HennyPennyHorror · 06/08/2019 23:03

My only memory of this is a girl arriving in my own secondary school at that age. She slotted in as though she'd always been there. Is your DS a sociable type? Easy going?

If so I wouldn't worry....if he's not then I would.

WaitingListWoes · 06/08/2019 23:14

Thanks HennyPenny yes DC is very sociable, that's a good point!

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BeautifulBlackBamboo · 06/08/2019 23:19

We did this around autumn half term. DC was fine, got welcomed as the 'new kid', made friends & forgot all about the earlier school by Christmas. Totally worth it!

Milicentbystander72 · 06/08/2019 23:27

I've only experienced this from dcs coming into my DD's year group around Christmas. They fitted in no problem. I found there's a still a lot of movement throughout Y7 and into Y8.

For what it's worth, my dd started at her second choice knowing no-one. She's about to start her GCSE year now and although Y7 was a bit rocky at first, it's been the best choice for her and she's very happy.

GreenTulips · 06/08/2019 23:32

I moved in year 7 after 6 weeks - got in on appeal as older sibling was there, didn’t have any issues.

DD moved in year 5 again no issues teacher didn’t even mention her move as she felt she’d always been there.

I wouldn’t overly worry. Kids move schools

WaitingListWoes · 07/08/2019 18:43

Thanks everyone - it seems I may have been overthinking this a bit! Grin

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