Oscars??? With dresses and diamonds? Please no! I cannot imagine anything worse.
I’ve been to loads of independent school speech days and these are very different to state school ones I have been to as a governor where plenty of prize winning DC don’t show up.
Therefore what is the aim of the event? If it’s just a ball type event with a gong, then are parents going to buy into it? An Oscar is just a prize after all! It just has glamour which rich people can afford and others will moan!
Our senior school kept it to 90 mins. Head made a short speech, chair of governors and then guest speaker, then prizes. They called DC to the stage individually and we used to do picnics in the grounds before going into the marquee. So lunch at school and speech day at 2. More fun that way.
New Head changed it to picnics after so no one bothered to set it all up afterwards and used the time to collect DCs trunks and then go home so it became a chore and no fun. Some schools restrict speech day to
Prize winners only so everyone else is excluded. You could try that approach if it’s new to you.
Progress prize is, of course, the biggest joke. Awarded to kids of rich parents or those with parents on the friends committee who were not remotely making much progress!!! My DD2 got one! One girl in my DD1’s year group scooped 7 prizes in upper 6th. That probably brought her tally up to more than 20 prizes down the years. Same names on the list every year. Music prizes to beginners when grade 7-8 DCs got nothing. The Classic was History prize awarded to a DC that didn’t do history! It’s obviously a load of crap, like the Oscars, and we only went for the picnic and booze!
It doesn’t matter what you do to jazz it up, it’s an unfair opaque occasion and most know that.