Help and advice please. My DD has had 2 and a half years of progressively worse emotional and mental health as a result of choosing an all girls school where not only did she not make friends but was subjected to the usual bitchy style bullying behaviour, a total lack of support from the school and a huge turn over of staff. so she had nothing positive going on at all in school and the result was that she started refusing to attend - threatening self harm etc etc - the school decided the best course of action was to put us on a penalty notice monitoring period so the only way we were able to get her out of the school quickly was via a managed move to a much smaller school. She settled well but the move has highlighted some deep rooted issues created by the school experience and as they have no access to her funding the new school have ended the move but have advised they will welcome her back in the next year if she can show that she has had some significant intervention to help her with her anxiety and self esteem/confidence issues. The old school have written to us to say that she is expected back in to a full timetable with no concessions as they made every effort to support her prior to the move and if she is absent they will be requesting a penalty notice. I am broken! My Doctor is preparing a referral to the CAMHS and Clinical PSychologist teams....she is already suffering due to her experience at that school - how can I send her back there? She was happy at the new school in everything apart from PE and feeling very self conscious if she didnt have her 'buddy' with her but she was only there for 7 weeks.....she is pinning her hopes on being able to return to them in September. They do have room in her year but we thought the managed move was the quickest way out of a horrible situation as we were being threatened with fines whilst trying to cope with an emotional wreck of a teenager. Help I am going out of my mind...