Have accepted offers at both Nonsuch and G&L. Leaning towards Nonsuch as fees for private school will be paid as a result of ex partners’ job which is far from secure. If fees were not paid by ex-partner - I could probably keep DD and DS in private school for just one more year. The pros of Nonsuch - diversity, I liked the head, facilities seemed good but journey is 1 hour. G&L probably has edge on sport and music (DD likes both) and has better exam results and is 45 minutes away. Do I take the risk on the private option? DD is bright and a hard worker and doesn’t have a strong preference. Academically, she is likely to do well at both. What is driving me to take the risk with the private option is the confidence private schools install in their pupils. It seems to give you a massive advantage in life (I went to a comp). In my work place, I walk past the privately educated sitting in their glass offices every day. Any thoughts appreciated.