DH, DD (aged 6) and I live in Islington. We want to move house this year—we own and DH doesn’t like renting. We’re unlikely to move again before secondary school so I have to think about it now.
DD is at an Islington state primary. I had a bad secondary school experience back in the 1980s (racism, bullying) so anxious that it be better for DD. Ideally I’d send her to a local, mixed, state, non-religious secondary. (Ironically, that is the type of school I went to.) However, few of the people we know locally have opted for Islington secondaries and even if they improve, we won’t necessarily get a place at a good one.
Unfortunately I can’t drive (for medical reasons) and having to be near transport options for work has ruled out moving to a few places (Stoke Newington, Crouch End, Muswell Hill) that some friends have chosen. We can’t afford to move an area more expensive than Islington. We don’t want to move out of London.
Both DH and I did well in school. While it’s too early to tell about DD, it seems sensible to assume passing an exam to get into a selective school may be possible. We are open to all options—including private, grammar, and religious. However, we wouldn’t get a faith place, or a music or performing arts one for example (DD not keen on performing!).
So part of me thinks we should move to a different area, but I don’t know where. Part of me thinks we should stay, because DD might be a good fit for, say CLSG and then we’re well placed where we are. I don’t want her to have a long commute to secondary, but can’t guarantee that wherever we are.
WWYD—stay in Islington or find another area? And any suggestions of schools to look at or places to move to welcome.