My 12 year old son has been bullied mercilessly since he began high school and I have taken the very difficult decision to move him to a private school which is much more suitable to his needs. I've even had to use my inheritance to pay for it. It's a decision I didnt take lightly but I know I'm doing the right thing for him, his confidence and his education. My problem is his father has taken the view that he should front it out and maybe that were true if it was one bully but it was coming from all angles and being low on the aspergers spectrum he just couldn't handle it. I havent asked him for any money towards it, I don't want it, but I'm worried now because his father has to sign the forms for him to go there and I was wondering if anyone knew my options if he refuses. I'm just a mum trying to do the best for my child.