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Hampton Waiting List

25 replies

Mumofthree1976 · 05/03/2018 13:15

Hi all - Does anyone have any experience of waiting lists moving post the deadlines? I have heard of families paying their deposits this year whilst waiting for a better option to come along but not sure how much truth there is to it.

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itschilly · 05/03/2018 13:37

I certainly know of someone who got offered a place off the waitlist at Hampton in the summer so they do move, but not sure how much.

Lenny100 · 05/03/2018 13:53

My son is on Hampton wait list
Looks as though they are not going to it this year ?

Clueless01 · 05/03/2018 20:22

Think they do move. We’ve been going through the process with DS2 this year and have got back to Hampton today to say opting for another school. Think people do decide after the state allocations come in so have all info possible. Hope very much you get a place.

Clueless01 · 05/03/2018 20:24

(Deadline was to day and, no, haven’t paid a deposit while waiting for a better off. That’s an unaffordable luxury!)

Lenny100 · 05/03/2018 21:43

Thanks will keep fingers crossed !

Mumofthree1976 · 05/03/2018 21:57

Likewise - thank you from me too clueless. Part of me feels they have over offered again this year but the other part still has some hope. Good luck with your DS Lenny100 - hope there’s good news for both of us

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Lenny100 · 06/03/2018 10:30

Thanks Mumofthree you too . to be honest I am very disappointed with the way Hampton have handled it , they are always very pleasant but they gave the impression that there was a very good chance of being called , and we had two weeks of agony waiting ... to then be told they would not go to wait list this year .Really stressful time !
Good Luck to you

Mumofthree1976 · 06/03/2018 11:18

Agree completely - they had been nothing but overly positive which held us back from accepting our other offer. So thinking they truly didn’t seem to have a clue on their numbers this year

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blinx · 06/03/2018 11:33

Hello, my DS is also on the wait list Just wanted to be sure you are referring to 11+ and not other points of entry. I have found HS staff to be very welcoming and helpful.

Lenny100 · 06/03/2018 11:58

Yes 11 plus
I agree that the staff are lovely , that’s one of the reasons we loved the school so much but I just think I would have preferred a bit more clarity on the situation .

Tolacar · 06/03/2018 11:59

I believe they had a lot of people accepting on the morning of the deadline, which might explain why they thought there was a possibility earlier on. Fingers crossed you get a place but I also heard that they did not go their waitlist....but I'm sure there are some that might have paid their deposit to hold out for another waiting list maybe? Difficult to know.

DartmouthParkHell · 06/03/2018 19:54

My son was on the waitlist and we've been called tonight to say he's in - so stay strong!

Tolacar · 06/03/2018 20:18

That's great DartmouthParkHell
So they are going to the waitlist! Fingers crossed for anyone waiting!

Perplexed73 · 06/03/2018 21:52

We had a similar experience with Alleyns. 2 weeks of encouraging conversations to be told morning of the deadline they will not go to WL. If schools are over offering, and everyone else interviewed is waitlisted, the wait list does start feeling pointless..I feel like my agony has been prolonged for 2 weeks unnecessarily. Schools would do well to remember their end customers are 11 year olds who’ve worked hard for the last 6 months and deserve clarity rather than raising their hopes for nothing. Sorry for the rant but had very devastated DC who had been desperately hoping for a last minute waitlist offer because Alleyns were so encouraging! Hope it works out differently for you all waiting on Hamptons.

DartmouthParkHell · 07/03/2018 06:00

@Perplexed73 - we were told that things frequently do move in the weeks following the 'final' decision date. Some families get caught up in the application process then once the demands for fees start coming in, realise they really can't actually manage it and drop out.
There is apparently a two-week 'cooling off' period where this is common, so don't give up quite yet.

Lenny100 · 07/03/2018 11:00

Thats fantastic news for you DartmouthParkHell ,many congrats to your son . I had resigned myself to a no ,so I feel a fluttering of hope again which is maybe not a good thing after all this !
Can I ask you did you play it cool and wait ,or did you staying constant contact ,never sure what is the best policy to take ?
Either way ,well done and best of luck .

createname · 04/03/2023 21:35

Mumofthree1976 · 05/03/2018 13:15

Hi all - Does anyone have any experience of waiting lists moving post the deadlines? I have heard of families paying their deposits this year whilst waiting for a better option to come along but not sure how much truth there is to it.

Hello there. Same situation 5 years later. 2 weeks of agony waiting for the call.
It would be very kind of you to let us know did you get the offer at the end. Thanks
@blinx @Tolacar @Mumofthree1976 @Clueless01

Tolacar · 05/03/2023 00:10

My Ds was not on the waitlist, he had a place offered. But I do know a boy in his year who did get offered a waitlist place. There may be movement next week. Fingers crossed for you.

createname · 05/03/2023 16:42

@Tolacar Thank you for your response.

Mumofthree1976 · 05/03/2023 19:47

Hi - we accepted our other offer and advised Hampton accordingly. Hadn’t heard from them and decided not to prolong the pain for our son. But I’m glad we chose the other school - DS is thriving and loving it and GCSEs are being handled superbly by the school. Good luck with your DS - hope you hear good news soon

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WombatChocolate · 05/03/2023 21:04

All schools over offer as not everyone accepts a place. Most schools have a range of likely acceptances…perhaps 60-66% even for popular schools. Some will always turn the school down as another good school is nearer their house and distance is important. With people sitting multiple exams, but the child only being able to go to one, they have to significantly over offer.

This isn’t what WL people want to hear, but for popular schools, the WL is really a back-up insurance for themselves. They stay friendly and encouraging about it through this period, as they want to be able to call you and you to accept the place , if they have mis-judged their over offers and basically didn’t make enough. However, for the school, not going to WL is always better and provides more certainty for being full and also for being full with the best candidates.

This is because when a school has to go to WL, even for just a few places, they often have to go down it significantly to get a ‘yes’. This is because those at the top very likely had other offers and in the period since offers, have accepted another and come to terms with that school and essentially ‘move on’ in their minds. They will have paid deposits, the child has got into thinking the other school is where they are going, and the parents don’t want to rock the boat. Of course, some on WL didn’t have that school as their top one anyway. So if a school has to go to WL, in just the couple of days after state school offers, they might need to offer to more than 10 people to get a ‘yes’. Less popular schools might offer to all their WL and still not fill all their places, if often they are 3rd or 4th choice for many.

Some also decide that they won’t go to WL if they are a couple of places short. They know in the next 6 months a couple of families will move into the area or back from abroad and contact them, and they can test those kids, or rely on other tests they’ve done like CATs and offer the place. Some will decide they will just start the year with a couple of empty places as they know from last experience, good students will appear in the next few months and they’d rather wait, than take someone who might not have quite made the cut. That’s the trouble with WL, whatever they tell the people on it….sometimes it really is that the kids would have done just as well as anyone else who had an offer first time round, but if you’re having to go down beyond a certain level of WL, you might be looking a levels the school really doesn’t want….and might not need to accept for financial reasons.

It’s a cruel thing….because the schools hold all the cards when you’re on a WL and it’s your top choice. They always hope not to go to WL. They will always get more acceptances from people initially offered, than offered beyond state school offer day, and they hate the uncertainty of needing to use the WL. But they often keep people hanging on and give false hope about often using the WL or offering lots of places from the WL…because they hope if they need it, they will get people from the top few and need to keep them positive about the school.

By the end of this week, when they say they’re not going to WL, they have a pretty clear picture of acceptances and genuinely are full or happy with their numbers. Some will say they will keep a small WL open if they have a history of more people later dropping out…but the no.s dropping out really tails off. Those who’d paid a deposit but were on a WL elsewhere, will themselves probably know know that school is t going to WL, or will have received an offer and so pulled out from the one they paid their deposit to.

I’d say by the end of this week, you should really have a good idea and coming to terms with what you’ve got is a good idea. Yes, occasionally later offers are made, but they are small in number, so if you do get one, it’s to be seen as an added bonus, but not really something to cling onto hope for.

Hope all the lovely children are able to feel excited and happy with what’s looking likely…and all the lovely parents who’ve out so much love and care into the long, hard process. Once you start getting letters about summer term joiner events and uniform lists etc, there can be excitement for everyone.

createname · 06/03/2023 09:17

@Mumofthree1976 Glad to hear your DS is happy. Happiness of our DC is the most important after all. Thank you for your response.

createname · 06/03/2023 09:26

Thank you for your response @WombatChocolate
Agree on the WL process - it is different from school to school.
I am not very optimistic here as I was told Hampton has very short WL - half of dozen, so I suppose heavily over offered. I believe children in that WL is still a good fit, otherwise it would be No strait away.

Lenny100 · 06/03/2023 10:42

Gosh , seems a long time since we were waiting to hear from Hampton and we never did.
Brings back awful memories.
But I have to say that my son ended up getting a place at another school at 13 plus and now I’m so grateful he didn’t get that place at Hampton as he is doing so well and is so happy.It is the perfect school for him, and the financial bonus of a very good scholarship to boot.
I have rarely heard of anyone who didn’t say eventually it all works out for the best and they end up at the school which suits them better, so just to say don’t worry , if it’s not meant to be at Hampton, there are many other brilliant schools and it WILL work out in the end.
Good luck !

createname · 06/03/2023 11:37

Thank you so much for your reply @Lenny100 , sorry for bring back the memories, cruel process doubtlessly. So happy for your DS finding the perfect school, with scholarship it is definitely a bonus! Agree on 'end up at the school which suits them better'

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