unexpectedly, we were in the same boat last year.
So having done a great job at not allowing DD to have a 'favourite' school we then had to go into reverse and work out which one we actually preferred.
There is no bad choice here.
Jags - we liked the new head. The open day we went to was great and the girls we met were lovely.
Alleyns - wasn't so sold on the head but the new Lower school building and the great sports provision had impressed us.
So we revisited. Alleyns bent over backwards to accommodate us and we were shown around as a family. We met key staff who were all v welcoming and friendly. We saw most of the school and were able to ask lots of questions. Jags were less flexible but we did manage to join a group tour. We saw all the facilities again.
Just on gut feel we went for Alleyns. It felt more vibrant and modern. We also liked the fact that Y7/Y8 are slightly separate from the rest of the school.
For us the co-ed /single sex question was also key. DD has perfectionist tendencies and we were concerned that an all girls environment might exacerbate that. She's pretty outgoing so we felt she would thrive at a co-ed.
Re homework - it's all v manageable.
We've been impressed so far - but early days yet! Good luck with your decision.