ds2 is struggling in A2. He is doing three A levels and finding all difficult (think D standard atm)
He has dyspraxia (diagnosis from age 13) and finds it difficult organising his thoughts on paper and crucially finds himself easily distracted from actual work. His sleep patterns are not particularily good. His attendance and punctuality are excellent. He hands in work, but it is always of a mediocre/poor standard, although always on time.
The school when contacted about his efforts and what we should jointly do to help him (ie school and parents) said he was 17 and it was time for him to take responsibility and they could not differentiate coursework deadlines etc. Am I right in thinking that they should in fact address this as a pastoral issue/and or educational issue related to his dyspraxia and low self-awareness not be telling him to pull his socks up. Which is essentially what they have suggested for last 7 years?
He does school related extra-curricular stuff which is to do with his A level but otherwise nothing sociable. He is in all weekend, he never goes out with mates, unless to the cinema by himself or with a cousin, or his siblings at a pinch. He is very shy.
I am feeling a bit frustrated by school's approach. They give him TA help but the whole mentoring side...there seems to be no way of monitoring his progress or flagging up academic issues to us - he is supposed to be "independent". Tbh he will always say he is fine if asked... The latest straw is the coursework, which will probably be a D and needs to be in two weeks. He has done it himself and it is terrible. Surely they should have mentioned (the department concerned) that this was of some concern??? earlier??? Not to dictate it but just so we could remind ds to look over criteria etc ask him what he had planned? If he had planned anything at all?