Another thing which I found quite interesting, when viewing schools, was how willing they are for you to see them at times other than their open evenings / mornings.
I visited (or tried to visit) 4 schools, all over-subscribed. As a teacher, i couldn't go to the open mornings all had. One did have an open evening, but for DS (for various reasons at that point a vulnerable child with particular needs) I wanted to see the school 'in session'.
One arranged a special 1:1 tour with an assistant head, who as well as showing me round the school, actively sought out children like my DS as we went round to talk to me about their experiences.
One arranged a late 'mop up' morning tour for me plus a few others who had not been able to attend the main events, during a normal school day, with a sixth former.
One regretted that, for numbers reasons, they really couldn't arrange extra morning tours or individual visits, but were happy for me to speak at length with a senior member of staff and the SENCo.
One refused, point blank, at the receptionist level, and told me off for not going to the open morning. They were so adamant that I was not allowed to see the school, or talk to anyone, outside the official open mornings that I am afraid I was goaded into asking what it was they didn't want me to see on a normal school day.
We went with school 1. Pastoral care for the individual child, including those who are 'unusual', and willingness to see parents as partners in the children's education, has been excellent. I don't hear the same things about school 4.