Firstly DD2 has done well. 9x A* to B grades (or new equivalents). I know there are plenty of parents whose offspring have not done so well, so I do appreciate that our situation is not deserving of much sympathy (we were in a different situation three years ago - but all is good now for DD1).
However, DD" has done far worse than we and she had hoped. She missed all her target grades except two. She was given several Bs when she had been predicted A*s.
She and I have looked at her marks, and there is nothing that leaps out as anomalous. She just did much worse in these exams than everyone expected, and in several subjects lower than in her mocks. But she worked pretty hard for the exams. She did loads of practise papers and came out of the exams pretty confident. She and I are just a bit confounded.
She felt she did much better in her maths than she'd hoped, and from looking at the grade boundary, thought she was a pretty secure 8, but just scraped a 7. She did get a 9 (just!) in her English language, but only squeaked a 6 in English literature (predicted an 8).
In another subject she and one other person in the year were predicted A*. Both got Bs.
Anyone have any thoughts? Words of wisdom? We did consider asking for a remark for Eng lit, but if she drops a mark she'll drop a grade. It all just seems so random though
, and she is feeling bad (despite our reassurance and bright positivity) that she is not as clever as she (and everyone else!) thought she was.