No worries, I don’t think it is unfair at all - waiting lists are waiting lists. It is sad that the council cannot provide enough places and schools cannot up themselves to a ‘good’ Ofsted level but that is a whole different problem!
I was only asking how it works in Bucks as where I am from, people just sign up to one of the ‘good’ rated comps in the area and generally get a place. Nobody stresses about it as far as I know.
I am asking how it works as I want the best of my kids, as we all do. I am asking as I don’t know the grammar system. I am asking as I want to avoid too much upset for my kids, and I don’t want them to go to 3 secondary schools.
To be honest, reading all of your answers it seems like a crazy rat race and a battle in Bucks and I have lots of second thoughts. I will call some schools and the council when term starts again, but will start looking into counties and catchment areas where the schools are not oversubscribed and we can plan ahead and know for certain where the kids will go. I am certainly not moving house, letting the council choose a random school for my kids while we wait for a place to come available elsewhere. If all fails, we’re going to stay put as we have a decent comp in town.
Thank you to all who have made wonderful suggestions for counties and schools, thank you who have explained the system for me - it has all helped a lot!! :) :)
As many have said, ofsted reports aren’t everything and with kids in schools I know that very well. but it is a useful first port of call and it does tell us something. Same with exam results. For now, its all I’ve got to go on together with forum comments etc...