To be fair I have pointed out to Teachers that some of them seem extremely high especially since she is doing a two year KS3 but there are two issues i'd like your thoughts on
- Do these targets matter - is it best to start afresh in the three year GCSE?? She has had anxiety issues this year so i have not pushed it - there have definitely been times when she could have got down to being a bit more academic - it is extremely obvious the subjects she likes and puts effort in.
- Is she coasting and getting away with it because she is well behaved girl who hands in her homework who will probably get good enough GCSEs but not in danger of failing.
Its hard to know - I want to intervene I really do - I don't want to add to stress but tbh she gets annoyed every single time I ask her to do homework and she is really disengaged. It's so frustrating. she has also got in with a gobby crowd at school who she admits disrupt her lessons.
I just don't know what to do - this has been going on for a while and I've been hoping she would knuckle down and get on with it - but she hasn't . the school don't seem to bothered - is that ok ?