My dc's school has a prize giving system where lots of kids got prizes for a range of different stuff - doing well academically, being kind, trying hard etc.. Probably about 40 kids out of maybe 160ish in total. Last year, my dc won the prize for best overall academic achievement in the year. This year she didn't win anything.. If it's anything like last year, I think about 10 kids will have won something to reflect good academic achievement.
Now obviously, if dc doesn't deserve to get a prize, she doesn't deserve to get one.. That's absolutely fine. She appears completely un-bothered..
My question is, in my position, would you consider contacting the school to see if there's an issue re progress? To go from being identified as the top performer to not even in the top 10 suggests that perhaps things may be going a little awry.
I am aware asking about this could make me look like a complete nutter and the ultimate pushy parent. Which I'm really not.
To put it into context, I've been pretty unhappy about some of her teachers (e.g some point blank refusing to differentiate) and standards in some subjects (e.g she does not know how to make negatives in French despite being near top of top group). At parents evening virtually every teacher said she was not making expected progress but was still top of the class. Most teachers told me to ignore progress measures because the school was introducing a new system and the staff had not got to grips with it yet so assessment was unreliable. However, from what I've seen, it is seems likely that at least in some subjects the school are not providing sufficiently differentiated work to extend high attainers and ensure they make appropriate progress.
I am going to look like a knob if I ask, aren't I? On the other hand, I've been considering moving her to another school because I've been so unhappy about some teaching. Aaagh. Don't know what to do.