DD joins year 9 soon, she has missed a substantial amount of school due to severe ill health. She had EOTAS tutors in core subjects & despite a pretty crappy situation she has thrown herself into the work & more than managed to keep up.
She has received of what classes/sets she will be in after a friend gave her the heads up that they are both in the same top set class for science, which she is thrilled about as it means she will be able to choose a triple science GCSE
Basically no issues with the 2 subjects taught by the same teacher. Maths however we are concerned about. It has always been a real strength of DDs, but problems with teaching in year 6 knocked her confidence in the subject big time, almost to the point of a break down as she is such a perfectionist & she never really recovered & too easily accepts that she just isn't good enough. She also suffers with sensory issues that can make a noisy class overwhelming, plus other problems that she has refused to speak up & ask for help about.
First year of High School she was put up a set to group B, but moved down again. DD was upset about this as she was on a noisy group table & was really struggling with concentrating because of the destractions. She insists she could always get the correct answers though, but the teacher was annoyed with her for not doing workings out. She was then moved back down a set, which she was upset about as she felt it really unfair as she was struggling in the B class, but not with the actual work per se, but she wouldn't speak up, just insisted that the teacher must know best & she just wasn't good enough at Maths & didn't deserve to be in the higher group. She also owned up to feeling belittled by others in her maths group, so she didn't feel confident speaking up to the teacher if questions were asked etc.
We had intended to chat to teacher at parents evening ahead of her being moved down a set, but things went pear shaped & DD took very ill/had an injury that meant she couldn't return to school until now.
Her EOTAS Maths teacher has done absolute wonders for her confidence, working at her real level & owning up part way through that he had initially messed up & had mistakenly thought she was older, so they had been sailing through year 9 & even year 10 work with ease, back tracking to make sure he had covered all year 8 stuff & ending up as a confidence boosting exercise having her take mock GCSEs - which she passed easily with high grades.
During his earlier lessons, DD was assessed by the EOTAS co-ordinator, who confided in me when leaving that he was very impressed by DDs "incredible rare maths skills" & he felt that she had gone under the school radar for her obvious gift & they needed to make sure she was correctly placed when returning to school.
DD was very disappointed to find out she will be back in group C, a group she found it even more noisy & difficult to concentrate in. I am also disappointed as it seems to go against what the EOTAS coordinator felt was right for her, but DDs confidence is already wavering as she now thinks she is only really good at maths if she is taught 1-1 & that she cannot expect to do that well in a school setting as teachers just don't have the time to help her even if she does speak up & ask, so she thinks there is no point in my querying this as she obviously isn't really that good, compared to the rest of the school
Return to school is going to be hard in her, but we have had a breakthrough with her health problems that will mean that she is much more able to work consistently at the level we know she is really capable of & we are hopeful that SPD will be less of an issue too. He cleverness has been acknowledged in the other subjects, but just not the subject I was told she deserved to be moved up in.
Hope that lot makes sense
I don't really know what to do for the best ??