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Parents of Year 11DC support thread. The final term.

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OhYouBadBadKitten · 30/03/2016 14:53

Eep.

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OhYouBadBadKitten · 12/05/2016 15:47

situated - there is a bit of mourning for the past though - it is so bitter sweet, saying goodbye to childhood and another (big!) step to adulthood. Don't worry about embarrassing your dd, I accidentally hugged dds HOY recently to say thank you for all she has done.

oh wow Ellen! Big day! I hope your ds2 does enjoy it! What is he wearing?

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EllenJanethickerknickers · 12/05/2016 16:08

This shirt if I can get it to download and a grey skinny suit with a navy tie! Thanks for asking. Smile He's currently in the shower.

Parents of Year 11DC support thread.  The final term.
situatedknowledge · 12/05/2016 16:12

Fab shirt Ellen!

Indeed mourning what has gone. She's embarrassed though because she's not actually leaving...she staying at the same place for sixth form. I really am an embarrassment! God help me at the end of Y13 when she will likely be leaving home. Grin

needastrongone · 12/05/2016 16:16

Liking the shirt Grin

DS has come home moaning about how hot he is. I think the forecast is for the temperature to cool somewhat over the weekend, thankfully before his first exam next Tuesday. He's not brilliant with heat.

I hope Dream is ok.

EllenJanethickerknickers · 12/05/2016 16:17

It's your job to embarrass your teenagers, situated!

DS2 is leaving school to go to college while most will stay on at sixth form, so it really is goodbye from him. I'll have to get a big box of biscuits or chocolates for the SEN dept who have looked after him so well.

EllenJanethickerknickers · 12/05/2016 16:22

Dream did PM me last week, all OK, just a privacy matter.

FantasyAndHope · 12/05/2016 17:10

Prom this soon? ellen DDs isn't till July, Shock

NanaNina · 12/05/2016 18:00

situated I'm on the thread because DGD is doing GCSEs but going into the 6th form at the same school. Just saw your comment about when they leave for uni. Well I don't want to worry you but with DS1 I was a total wreck and was sitting crying in his bedroom and DH said I was acting like he'd died! Was a bit better with DS2 but couldn't take either of them to the towns where they'd be living because I knew I'd break down. After visiting DS2 I used to cry for about 30 mins in car.............that was all over 30 years ago but you never forget!

NanaNina · 12/05/2016 18:17

Bluegazebo I've just read your posts about revision (or lack of) - I've been there too - many years ago. DS1 was refusing to revise and I'd tried everything and in desperation I said "Ok clever dick what are you going to do when you fail your A levels?" His reply "I shall get myself a sweatshirt saying "why didn't I listen to my mother" and I burst out laughing! The thing is there is absolutely nothing you can do if they won't revise - very frustrating, but brain cells don't die (well they do but not for a long time) and my son eventually got a 2.1 degree.

Thankfully DGD follows her mother and is conscientious and very self motivated.

BlueGazebo · 12/05/2016 19:19

I have to admit that I was a non reviser too (but don't tell DS)!

FantasyAndHope · 12/05/2016 20:13

DD extremely pissed off, she did a practice mock for geography and got 18/25 admittedly her teacher is a harsh marker but DD just seems to think she cannot improve anymore in her physical geography she knows her stuff, DDs teacher has said she rights to much and that's what looses her marks?

OhYouBadBadKitten · 12/05/2016 20:27

Does she need to refine her answers F&H? That is 72%, what does she need for her target?

Fab shirt Ellen - I really like that! I hope he is having a really good evening.

I'm going to be hopeless when dd leaves home. She will have the cleanest bedroom that ever existed, liberally washed with tears no doubt. I think I'll have to organise a weekend away or something to focus on. though we will be so bankrupt from uni fees it would have to be Skegness

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littledrummergirl · 12/05/2016 20:29

I'm not looking forward to ds1 going to uni-ds2 wants to go to army college so they will both be leaving at the same time. Sad I just have to make the most of them while they are still here.
I hope today went ok for everyone.

EllenJanethickerknickers · 12/05/2016 20:32

Fantasy, their proms are all before the exams start around here. Trouble is that their exams finish on different dates, some over a week later than others and people go off on holiday.

I wonder if she's mistaking quantity for quality and writing everything she knows about the topic but not actually answering the question in geography? The mark schemes are pretty specific about what will gain a mark and anything irrelevant won't count.

EllenJanethickerknickers · 12/05/2016 20:36

He looked lovely in his shirt, cool and surfery. not at all biased He may have spoilt the look a bit by skipping! Grin

My DS1 is due to go off to university in Sept/Oct. I'm divorced and DS1 has been my rock. Not looking forward to it... At least DS2 is unlikely to leave home for a few years yet.

BlueGazebo · 12/05/2016 20:46

DS was accused by his Geography teacher of throwing EVERYTHING at the question. Exam technique is SO important. It's not just what you know.

navylily · 12/05/2016 21:26

fantasy - DS was told he wrote too little, so clearly no easy way of scoring geography marks.

But having a really close look through the mark scheme was useful. There's so much they won't get marks for, and a lot of marks awarded for things that are never mentioned in the question - like using examples from case studies, and using lots of joining words to explain how things cause other things. DS lost a mark for saying "The graph shows that Brazil has 80% of its energy from renewables but the US only has 20%" when apparently he should have said "The graph shows that Brazil has 80% of its energy from renewables, which is more than the US has, at 20%" - his use of the word "only" was apparently not sufficient to indicate that he knew 80% was more than 20% Confused. Either the mark scheme is written by an idiot, or DS's teacher is an idiot IMO. I'm hoping it's the teacher and the real examiners will be a bit more sensible over things like that.

Getting top marks in the longer questions in particular seems to be very much about exam technique not knowledge or understanding. On the plus side, I think exam technique is probably quicker to learn than the whole course content so am trying to get DS to do some more practice papers, having now learned that he needs to stick to bullet points for the short questions so that he has time to write enough detail on the long ones.

228agreenend · 12/05/2016 21:39

Love the shirt. Where is it from?

Physics today was 'good'. Good is ds's standard answer for everything, including the year 8 maths exam, where he forgot his calculator!

Now trying to get ds2 revising for his exams.

Actually, not now at the moment, but earlier this evening,

FantasyAndHope · 12/05/2016 21:40

They don't teach exam
Technique in geography actually she's doing AQA igcse. It's mainly the 4 mark questions she looses marks and it is a case of putting knowledge down and not answering the question I think

TheSecondOfHerName · 12/05/2016 23:36

F&H: are there some mark schemes she can look through from past papers? DS1 isn't doing geography, but he has found with Biology that there are certain key words & phrases they are looking for.

ExitPursuedByABear · 12/05/2016 23:51

Loving the idea of someone skipping off to prom.

Looked through photo albums tonight to find a photo of DD on her first day in reception. She looked petrified!

A bit sad that we don't have a leavers' assembly. Or anything for parents. In the early years I was big organiser of stuff, but you lose touch as they move up the school. We used to have a mums piss up night out. I think a friend is organising pre prom cocktails so that will be a chance to see everyone and say farewell.

🎵🎵slipping through my fingers 🎵🎵

EllenJanethickerknickers · 13/05/2016 00:35

Only 4 children went to DS's school from his primary, and I saw them all tonight, which was lovely. Secondary school is so much more about the DC and much less about the parents, it's quite sad (for us parents!)

DS has ASD and skips everywhere when he's excited! Grin He enjoyed himself, the free pick and mix might have helped.

The shirt was from Joe Browns online. Lots of lovely surfer type stuff.

ExitPursuedByABear · 13/05/2016 06:40

Glad he enjoyed himself.

Dd has now decided she won't do better than a B in Maths as she was struggling to get more than 67% on a past paper last night. I keep telling her that a B is fine. But she will keep on stressing about getting As. It's in the luck of the draw I suppose as to which questions come up. I hope she will go into school next week when she hasn't got exams to get a bit of help.

Last proper day. Sob.

littledrummergirl · 13/05/2016 07:18

Ds1 is going back in today for a revision session. He was very anxious last night but perked up before bed.
Glad he enjoyed his prom Ellen.

catslife · 13/05/2016 08:19

Had to double check school website after reading situated's post and this confirmed that parents weren't invited. A bit disappointed that Leaver's hoodies weren't given out yesterday though. I think some of the parents may have complained as an email was received after the end of school.
dd has decided to go into school today for some of the revision sessions and to do revision under supervised conditions rather than stay at home. First written exam on Monday is RE.