So my DS has just joined a school in year 10 and has settled very well. if im honest im quite surprised! His Head of year has been brilliant. To give you an insight my DS isnt an easy kid alot of the time he has slight beahvoir difficulits. I partly blame myself im a single disabled mum and he cares for me alot. HE gets upset and angry at school (not badly) The head of year has been brilliant he has given him a time out card, councelling, a place to work when he feels he cant work. When i have been in hospitial (we tell the school) the HoY goes and checks on him in the day. He really cares. Are only problem is that he isnt the head of year the kids (already at school) normally have and we know that she isnt as good, she dosent believe in kids "excusses" for anything including situations at home she dosent believe that it should come in school enviroment. You can never find her (apparently) and she forces kids to do things they dont (or cant) do (like go to class, when theyre are issues behind why they cant, like one of my DS's friend has servere anxiety to the point he has panic attacks outside classes the old hoy would make him go in forcing him to kick of or be ill) She has been on maternity leave and is ment to be back in febreuary (at least thats what kids have been told) its her first child as well. Um the main reason we think that she might not come back as hoy is that the hoy at the moment only teaches 7 lessons a week (due to being a hoy) this will stay the same if she comes back. that means he would have 23 hours a week free periods i know teachers like having free periods but thats pushing it! School are telling us nothing as they "dont really know" any experence advie anyhting! thanks for reading sorry its long i cant put it in smaller words