DD had just started A levels at college. She is working flat out already, worried about how much she has to do and basically getting herself into a flap. She is doing Maths, Physics, Biology and Geography. She knows what she needs to get to get on to her university course. She also knows that she has to keep up with her weekend voluntary work because she needs this as well.
She decided that she wanted to give up physics. DH and I went to her first parents evening and explained to her tutor who flat out told us she can't do that. Full stop. Not allowed.
Then told us that her expected A level grades were B - calculated from her GCSE grades. Her GCSE grades were 5A* 3A and a B. Seems a bit odd. She needs to get ABB. She doesn't know about this yet but I know it;s going to freak her out - she will instantly think it means she has to work harder.
Her tutor is getting her an appointment with a college counsellor to help her 'manage' her workload.
What can we do to help her? Any advice?