Thank you for all the replies.
I did not intend this to end up being an 11 plus discussion.
To answer some questions. DS does get more than one piece of homework per subject each week. He has German 4 x a week and gets homework every lesson (not revising vocab- they have never had a vocab test yet). Most has to be completed for the next lesson. He has to write 150 words on how Germany helps the environment with green initiatives by Friday.. in German. All students take a MFL GCSE in year 9, so they have 8 lessons a fortnight in either German or French.
Art homework tends to take the longest. One piece took 3 hours last week- and to be honest ended up being a family effort while he was doing pages of History.
DS wants to be a pilot, but when we looked at air cadets, the commitment was 5 hours a week ( not including travelling to and from the unit). We went to the open evening and the opportunities it gives young people are amazing- opportunity to fly, work experience in air traffic control, Dof E Bronze and Silver for free, A Btec in Aviation Studies, gliding licences etc.
My worry is with all this homework, many children will have amazing GCSEs but on their UCAS form all it will say is: I've done homework for the last 7 years, had very little down time, had no outside interests, what an amazing childhood that was!
To add to the mix my father has just been admitted to hospital 3 hours away with heart failure. He is not been given his insulin as 'the ward does not have any'... Arghhh. We have a German exchange student arriving for the week tonight, I work full time and need to shop, make up beds, do an airport pick up etc. So you can imagine the stress levels at home. I won't be helping with bloody art homework this week!