Ladies thank you so much for your very very helpful responses :)
jimams Compulsory subjects are just the usual ones, maths, English and science. She will be doing triple science.
She wants at the moment to go to music college but I have asked her to write down all that she wants to do to help us decide.
She is v pro drama all of a sudden (or so it seems to me). Not anti language, just no space for it. I'm no geographer but even I feel a humanity is important.
That does make sense about A* in anything better than B in German - a colleague who knows a bit about this told me the same thing.
My days MI that's very impressive by DD1! My DD has done nothing like that. Maybe I should suggest it!
Interesting about picking up a language at uni - not unusual with Russian even in my day (many many years ago) hmm or Italian as well. German perhaps less common. Pretty sure she won't do languages at uni anyway but I am also certain that she won't be able to do German A level without German GCSE - even with my fabulous support. I guess I just love German (my degree) and am a bit sad - I do see tho, that this is really really not about me :)
teenandtween I am worried too about her having to work with peeps she doesn't know. We maybe need to talk about that some more.
truly I don't think it is for duffers - I am just worried that the duffers will think so IYSWIM. She can certainly do drama and music - there are no option boxes. Lol re Les Mis - she is in it next month and her best clarinet playing mate is in the orchestra! That's a point actually re conflict with music and drama - I will ask about that at parents' eve.
Thanks again and sorry for another essay - it is just helping me think it though :)