Dh and I have both been to university and dh is hrt payer.
Does this eliminate ds from trying to access the above programmes? It's not as if we are rolling in it - ds goes to comprehensive school and just because we went to university (ahem) 30 years ago does not give us special insight into the HE system of 2015. I also wouldn't say that because of our degrees we zoomed up the social hierarchy and are now hobnobbing with the great and the good.