Says it all really. Reward trips are a big deal at ds's school. Only a few get to go. Ds really really wants to go- but it's roller coasters and he hates them.
Do I
- explain to the school and see if he can have the day off and I take him somewhere else,
2 just say tough shit, you're going and you can either go on the roller coasters or wait at the bottom and hold the other's coats
3 take him to a theme park and see if his roller coaster addict big sister can acclimatise/indoctrinate him first,
4 send him into school normally and he not get a "reward"
- some other solution I haven't thought of.