I most certainly do Titus. I also think school rules need to be applied fairly to all children and not differentiated becasue of different backgrounds.
Oh, in H&F, let me see - Hurlingham and Chelsea for one. Lots of children have swerved that one since the selection rules changed and I don't think the overall results for H&F will be rising as a result.
I disagree with you about the overall ethos because I disagree fundamentally about the race to the bottom and the fact that standards for all should not be diluted because of excuses made for those who should not be in mainstream schools. H&F has a lot of form not managing that.
There are many middle class parents who simply don't have an extra 16k after tax to educate their children. The alernatives in London are grim - there used to be alternatives for girls - we tried one - and whipped dd out sharpish because of the way it was going. We were actually committed to supporting non fee paying alternatives but were back footed over it.
You say subsiding the sharp elbowed middle classes. I'd say the middle classes who aren't well off enough to live in London and pay school fees but who also want the best education possible for children who might not be in the Tiffin league.
There needs to be middle way and diluting standards for everyone isn't it. It certainly isn't appropriate that state schools should dilute and betray those who support them most; this helps no-one, not least the well behaved girl of the estates who wants to achieve but is pulled between doing so and the chav threat from those on her estate who might not have got a place in that school a generation ago. A generation ago that girl might have had an assisted place at Putney High or the boy an asssisted place at Emmanuel.
How has the present situation benefitted children who deserve to be allowed to thrive academically.