My DD is in Y8 at a decent independent school (one of the best in our county). She has a music scholarship and an academic scholarship which together total 40% of the fees. Academically she is doing well but musically she is coasting - she barely does any instrument practice and because it's not cool to look like you're enjoying chapel choir she hardly opens her mouth to sing during services.
She had a place at a super selective grammar which we declined in favour of her current school mainly because of the quality of the music provision. I'm starting to think that we made a mistake. Is it too late to change things? We are not loaded so even 60% of the fees means we have to extend the amount of our mortgage regularly. I have called the grammar school and they have a waiting list for places should they arise.
Should I go ahead and apply? She doesn't have any really good friends although she is happy at school and enjoys school work and sports. Both schools are equidistant from our home (20 miles away).
Another alternative is our local 'good' comp (starts at y9) but I have worked there and there are some downsides mainly to do with a percentage of the cohort not being interested in school. At her previous state school DD underachieved (although not massively) mainly due to lack of motivation. She now likes doing homework!
All advice greatly received, thanks
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