DS doing AS exams. Overhead by a teacher today joking with a friend that he'd put a couple of numbers on a calculator to jog his memory when revising. Teacher goes to management who interview DS.
DS had had calculator in his see through pencil case - on the table - in a non maths/science exam and so hadn't taken it out - no need to and certainly no intention of looking up these numbers which, at that point, would have been pretty meaningless to him.
DS worried and upset - had to write a statement - it's going to the Head.
Along with the offending calculator.
No invigilator saw his calculator on the exam desk - he didn't have it out - wasn't an issue. He is now embarrassed (kids saw him going in and out of class) and worried about disqualification. Doesn't want us to contact school at this point.
How can I allay his fears? I told him the school was simply covering its back - but I do think it was a possible overreaction - very clearly nothing went on - the invigilators are eagle eyed.
Do we get in touch nevertheless or wait for school to contact us, if they do? School is generally very, very unresponsive when we've gone to them with concerns about progress/happy at school etc.
Oh help - I feel wretched for DS who was silly to banter like this and, I guess, to keep the calculator there in his case (needs it for all other exams) but nothing happened - I really do believe that - and I wish this would all go away .... Any thoughts/any similar experience - many thanks!