We looked at Christs, St Celia, RPA and Ashcroft from the local Richmond/Wandsworth secondaries in our vicinity.
We went to Ashcrofts open day with high hopes and no prejudice, heartened by it being rated Outstanding by Ofsted.
Upon leaving my son said "Please dont apply for this school for me"
We did not like what we heard about how some unruly children being segregated and educated separately. I am sure it works well for the children who get to stay behind in regular school, but "juvenile detention" on the premises just did not sit right with me. To me that is the opposite of good pastoral care.
I dont care what the headmaster said in his speech about this, I prefer to listen to the children and what they said about it.
My son has experienced some pretty severe bullying, and he is just getting back on track. He is now in a good, small primary with a great ethos and they have spent time and effort helping him, both with the senco and counselling, to help him move on. But I know he can be "unruly", and joke about when insecure. A school that opts to segregate children and punish all behaviors for whatever reason, rather than help the child get it right, is bottom of the list for us, and we did not apply at all.
We did however rate Christ and St Celia very highly and liked RPA much more than Ashcroft. Being near East Sheen, and having connections in the area, we hear many great things about RPA and how it is improving.
There are many threads in Secondary Education about RPA where local people rate it highly.