Ok so DD didn't get into our first choice school. The option of perusing waiting lists/appeals is there but I'm just not sure what to do for the best. So you lot get to help.
School A (first choice) rated 'good' OFSTED wise, gets good results (we still have a three tier system) is a feeder school for an outstanding OFSTED rated high school, had a nice feel to it and an approachable staff when we visited, has an after school club on the premises. Is a bus ride away, none of her friends have got in either (actually one did that I know of who has an existing sibling there), was not DD's first choice.
School B - rated OFSTED 'good', on paper does not get the same results school A does, is not a feeder school for the outstanding high, although the high it does feed to is much improving and actually outperformed the outstanding school results wise last year, is the school both I and DH attended, is within walking distance, has no after school club, cousin is attending this school so childcare with SIL could be potentially coordinated in a similar fashion to which we do now (along with after school club that we are now able to use at present), is where DD wanted to go.
DD's best friend also got a place at school B but her mum is definitely planning to appeal, DD would like to be with her friend although this would not be a deciding factor. School B is also planning on moving sites to the feeder high school, although this is still shrouded in secrecy and we don't really have any details as to how this is going to pan out although it will almost certainly happen inthe 4 years that DD would be there.
I'm in a right old conundrum, give me your thoughts please.