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How soon does your child's school send letters of concern?

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Groovee · 28/02/2013 18:31

My dd is in first year at high school (think year 7 equivalent). We received through the post a letter of concern about the 4th of February as in January she hadn't finished a book and sat the test in January as she chose a very long book which she hadn't finished.

My friend who has an older daughter says her school has never sent letters of concern and she only found out at Parents Night, about an issue which she felt should have been flagged a lot sooner.

Does your child's school contact you when they are concerned or get in touch with you or do they leave it?

Incidently, she has read and sat 3 tests in February!

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racingheart · 28/02/2013 19:39

sorry - didn't follow at all what you were saying about the books and the tests but our school never sends letters of concern. We sometimes get a note int he homework diary, but other than that, even serious issues regarding education are either dealt with on parents evening, or if you happen to get a more conscientious teacher one year, at school gates pick up time.

BackforGood · 28/02/2013 20:14

We get letters if there's a detention.
Other problems tend to be a phone call from the teacher.
(I don't understand what you are saying about the book either)

Groovee · 28/02/2013 21:35

They do a reading thing, where they get a list of books according to what they have been assessed as being at their level. They read the book, then they go to the library and use the computer to sit a test which records their results and sends it to the class teacher.

Because she didn't sit a test in January they automatically sent a letter of concern via the post.

But in February, she has finished 3 books and sat 3 tests! Her Challenge is 4 books by the Easter holidays.

I just wondered how other schools deal with things as my friend's dd at the other local school has gone through her year without any contact in a situation which mum only discovered at parents night.

Our school seem to go overboard with the concern letters!

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BackforGood · 01/03/2013 12:15

I've never heard of the reading thing you describe, but might it be that - if the tests are done, as and when, on a computer programme by the pupils, then there is an automatic trigger that sends a letter out if they've not done one by a certain date?
Personally, I'd FAR rather work with a school that is active in raising any concerns, however slight they may seem, before they grow into bigger issues, than a school that told me in the Summer Term that one of my dcs had been having problems, or not trying their best since October.
As I said above, over the years (ds is now in 6th form), I've had seveal phone calls from individual teachers who have been concerned about something he has done / hasn't done. Seems a lot more sensible than a letter if a teacher has a concern, less time consuming and more 'instant' and teacher can chat things over more easily than in the formality of a letter. Of course, this depends on being able to get hold of one of the parents.
Can't say what happens at dd's school - she's a different kettle of fish from ds, and I can't imagine them needing to contact me Grin. They do post out praise postcards though ! apparently so do ds's school, but I found that out from another parentWink

Groovee · 01/03/2013 12:25

It could be a Scottish Scheme of reading as my niece is at private school and been doing the same system since p6.

We've received a number of praise "postcards!" We usually get a once a month reading test result letter, which makes no sense.

It could be an automatic trigger and dd was on edge for days as she knew it would be coming. I thought she was exaggerating about the letter. She was obviously aware of the system but there is little info about these things from the school as they don't have a school handbook and nothing was ever mentioned at the parents nights before she started.

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