DS1 has hypermobility (what we used to call double jointedness) As a result he has poor control of his fingers. Things like doing up buttons and using a knife and fork came late to him. He still hasn't quite mastered shoe laces despite intensive tuition over 2 summers!
He was very late to write, in the infants I was told "he's a boy, it'll come" in yr 3 & 4 he was labeled "lazy" (and there is something in that, although some of it stemmed from him just finding it so damn hard)
Anyway, at the end of my tether I approached my GP and we were referred to OT where we got the hpermobility diagnosis. He did a Speed Up writing course with OT and things improved a lot. He improve his test results by 2 years, which meant he was writing just below the level he was "supposed" to be at.
He still has to hold his pen very tight, which means his hand and arm tires quickly, his writing is still very untidy (unreadable) and he has to be pushed hard to produce much more than a few lines. However, he was achieving OK at primary school, so there was no additional support there.
However, I think his writing has been holding him back. He managed to achieve 4a in English & 5c in maths in his yr6 SATS despite this, but I just know he could have done so much more. It's not that he can't answer, it's that he can't write it down, or it can't be read, or he writes the bear minimum. His reading age was off the scale (13.6?) from yr3. Also, now he sees so many different teachers, they won't get used to his writing in the way his junior teacher did and of course there will ultimately be written exams.
We had our first meeting with his new form tutor last night who appears concerned for his difficulties and promised (enthusiastically) to find out how the school can support him and get back to me. What, realistically, can I expect?