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General advice on a few issues please.

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Esheeha1 · 20/06/2012 19:15

My daughter is 13, in year 9 and has always struggled with reading and writing. I've tried on many occasions to have her statemented but was told that she is not dyslexic enough... But she very much is! My daughter was bullied all through primary school, then during year 7 of her first high school. We moved her to a new school at the end of year 7, where she seemed to settle & find friends however, it turned out that these friends were actually the troubled ones, bunking, drinking, smoking, my daughter began doing these things too. Over the past 8 months she has worked very hard to turn her life around, applying herself at school & trying to make new friends.
Many of the teachers seem to still tar my daughter as the trouble maker, unwilling to let her move on. My daughter regularly comes home upset, even tearful over the way her teachers speak to her or where they have treated her differently to the other pupils in class. Today, one teacher said she was an arsehole & all the teachers think that too, because she said it was unfair that X didn't have to participate it the charity bake off but would receive the credit as if she had. My daughter is still in tears. For me it's the final straw, I'm not sending her to school tomorrow & want to move her to a new school for her final two years. Do you think I should complain? & how can I get my daughter the help she needs? She is so caring, adores animals & she volunteers at our local animal sanctuary every Saturday... I just want her to be happy for once & provide her with some happy school memories before its to late.

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meboo · 20/06/2012 20:00

I don't have any advice for what to do about the school, but if you suspect that she is dyslexic then you can either find a dyslexic assessor, which would cost approx £75-£150 and would give you an idea or you can arrange a Educational Psychologist report approx £500. The EP is more involved and hold tonnes more weight with schools when working out what help to give her at school.

If you cannot afford this then contact parent partnership www.parentpartnership.org.uk/ they have been amazing in giving me help and advice for what the school HAS to do to help.

I wish you all the best.

TantrumsAndBalloons · 20/06/2012 20:02

If there is a teacher calling your dd an arsehole it needs to be reported.

Esheeha1 · 20/06/2012 20:31

Thank-you for your advice & the link. I will check it out now. :-)

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Esheeha1 · 20/06/2012 20:32

You're completely right. I'm going to formally complain to both the school & our LEA.

Thank-you for responding to a desperate mum.

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bananacrepe · 21/06/2012 13:57

Write to the head - I'm a teacher and there is no way on this earth I would ever call a child that! It is highly unprofessional. Also speak to your child's form tutor or head of year; they could perhaps speak to their teachers and highlight that she is trying to change so could they please be aware of this and praise her accordingly. Do however also make clear that you want to be told about any misbehaviour to make sure that you are getting a clear picture..!

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