Forgive what will be a very long post...
When we arrived in England some years ago, we had no idea how the school system worked. We bought a house in an area we would not have chosen had we known about catchment areas. We managed to get our daughter into a reasonably good primary school outside of our area. However, we are now having to think about secondary schools for September 2013. The high school that we are connected to is one of the worst performing schools in Coventry. Our first choice of secondary school is one of the best schools in the city and using one of the as the crow flies websites is about 4 miles away. However, this school is a feeder for 2 other primary schools and half of my daughter's current school. Our second choice is kenilworth high in kenilworth but as this is a Warwickshire LA school, also very popular and successful, I can't imagine her getting in (although a teacher I know have said kids from her Coventry school not far from my home got in to that school). Our third choice is about a mile or so from my home but is an OK school (better than our catchment one), although the teacher I mentioned says that her children attend there and she is not happy with the academic performance of the school. This school, Coundon Court, used to be one of the best schools in Coventry, but has gone really down over the years. At the present time, we cannot afford to move house. I am just struggling with the idea that my daughter's future is in the hands of the LA. Some of her classmates will be going to the school we would like her to go. She is very upset that she may end up going to a poor performing school and on top of that she will be on her own. There are just not that many reasonably well performing schools that we live close to that we could choose from and we only get 3 choices, unlike the neighbouring Warwickshire that offer parents a choice of 7 schools. I don't know what we can do. I feel like such a failure because it's my fault that we are not financially able to move.