Hello All, I'm a newbie looking for some sound advice please as I have searched Google with a fine toothed comb and come up empty on this!
sorry this is long...
My daughter is in Year 8 at an Academy Grammar School. She has a rare and serious back condition and is waiting for an operation at GOSH. She has had a lot of time off due to pain both this year and Year 7 (rarely a whole week, but often, 2 or 3 days at a time when she needs bed rest plus doctors, physio and hospital appointments) and when she has the op she will have approx 7 full weeks off school.
At the moment during her time off, she keeps in touch with school via email and moodle and nearly always manages to catch up with work (admittedly, it is probably not always to the standard of others as she wasn't in class) . Any assessments she misses she does when she's back at school during her free periods as she no longer does PE.
I am fighting with the school (who have offered little help) to get her 5 hours of tuition a week during her time off for the op, not sure yet if that will come through but both my daughter and I am committed to keep her as up to date as we possible can with limited help from the school who have said that it would be impractical to put lessons online for her.
Anyway, sorry, to get to my point.... during my meetings with the school, the main agenda on their part is how much time she has had off and will be having off. They are saying that they want to keep her back next year to repeat year 8. They are saying that as Year 9 is the beginning of the GCSE's, that she won't be ready as she hasn't made the expected progress.
When I asked them to clarify this, they said that as she came into year 7 in the top 30 of the year and she is now just below half way that she hasn't made the predicted progress that was expected based on her first assessments at the school at the start of Year 7.
My daughter really does not want to go back a year and I think that she is going through enough with out having to make new friends now too. She is facing a Circumferential Fusion of her Spine, scars front and back and a 6 month recover period. She needs friends to help her through this, not strangers.
As for her progress, I know my child better than the school does and I know she will bounce back academically. I've talked it through with her loads and even explained that with everything she is going through, going down a year could take the pressure off her right now and that could be good too. But she just doesn't want to do it. I know that she is clever enough to be able to cope and quite honestly, I really don't care if she is top, middle or bottom of her year group. I just want her to be happy. And besides, what about any other girls that are below my daughter in the year? They are not threatening to hold them back.
But unfortunately, the school is like a dog with a bone and won't drop it. Can they really force her? The way they are talking, it is their decision, NOT ours! I've had a meeting with the Headmaster and with her Head of Year and the Deputy Head, they are all saying the same.
Any advice on my Legal Rights and how to handle this would be really appreciated please.
Many thanks in advance xxx