We hit all the other criteria for the Oratory, baptism, church attendance, 1st communion BUT my ds has gone to an independent school all his life. Is this going to make him ineligible? Can you explain this away? He has some learning issues that made it necessary to go for the smaller class size, mostly sorted so can now handle a more realistic environment.
Does location make a difference at all? We live a 5 minutes walk from it.