My son is in Year 7 at Aske's. After much debate over Aske's, Kingsdale and a far away Grammar, we put Aske's first on our form. We now know we made the right decision. My quiet, quite academic son (but useless at music!)is thriving there. He was the only boy to get in from his primary school, but found there were many other children in the same situation. From what he says, on the whole his cohort are well behaved and get on well together. He has many friends and walks home with a couple of other boys from his year. The initial setting (English, Maths, Science and D & T) was done on the results of SATs and tests at the end of the first week, more assessments at Christmas meant some more moving around of children. They had a 4 day adventure holiday to get to know each other at the beginning of this year and have been on a trip for English and this week for Science. There have also been a number of social events at the school,eg International Day on Friday evening. After the oppressive and chaotic open day, we expected there to be poor communication from the school, but the opposite has been true, both on an academic and on a social level, eg two school reports and an open evening already! They are worked hard, but not overly so, and if they don't do homework or are late, they get a warning first (sanction), and if there is a repeat event in a short time, then a detention.
There are many lunch clubs and after school clubs, and it great that if my son does a sport after school, he is still home by 5pm. Many of his friends from primary school spend two hours commuting each day, while he spends 40 minutes www.mumsnet.com/te/2.gif (20 mins each way).
I have no reservations to recommend this school to prospective parents, it is proving better than expected.