Happygardening, thanks so much for your information filled posts on this - all the useful details that aren't on the websites! Its a bit of a different thing calling up loads of bursars and trying to get details off them...
Particularly interested in the info re St Pauls. I did the bursary forms for Colet Court and to be honest was surprised that they didn't recommend 100% bursary given my income / circumstances. Also that the form suggests there is so much discretion involved and no appeal process, but I guess I'm just not used to this sort of system at all.
What I found the real worry was that the bursary letter suggested the amount offered wouldn't neccesarily go up with fee rises, especially as given that the next couple of fee increases are likely to be before my DS would have even started (assuming they go up every year)!
As it is, my DS unfortunately didn't make a place. Had he done so, I really don't know if I'd have been able to accept, as no matter how much scrimping and saving to make up the shortfall, it could all be undercut with a fee rise that left me unable to meet the rest.
Anecdote from the admissions people there - a boy offered a 10+ place last year who they were keen to accept, turned down the place as the family couldn't afford the 20% fees they'd be liable for after a bursary.
I don't know if its much better at the senior school, or if this is just as good as it gets - my DS is likely to be sitting the admissions exam for Colet Court again at the end of this year. (sorry for the long post
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