My son’s timetable has no classes Tuesday mornings until after 1pm and Thursdays all day but school policy is the kids must be in for periods 1-4 every day. As his three Advanced Highers are almost all scheduled in periods 5-6 that means almost full days for him but what I’m worried about and he’s upset with is the 4.5 hours of sitting in a study area goofing off and being on social media. I have asked if he could go to the enrichment PE classes during that time that they run for S5s but apparently those are full and not for S6 kids.
He had a tough time last year with friend groups within the school and got depressed and very stressed with courses at one point and it was, as a parent, frankly terrifying. Someone he knew and was friendly with killed himself last August and my son made a comment that he understood why he would - we swung into ultra-hands on parenting and I think we’re okay now but I’m still nervous.
It’s not just the time wasted - I don’t want him sitting there two days a week for 4+ hours with some of these kids who have socially excluded him in the past. He has good friends through sport outside of school and that is helpful - but the school hasn’t ever gelled for him (maybe as a lockdown starter?).
Is there legislation to support the schools request or is this just something our head teacher has dreamed up! What’s the consequence if he doesn’t go in Tuesday and Thursday mornings with parent support?
thanks!