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Anyone have experience of applying for flexi schooling in Scotland ?

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Awumminnscotland · 17/03/2023 13:22

From another thread I understand Fife Council to be unusual in their use of this so I'm looking for experiences of flexi schooling elsewhere in Scotland. I'm thinking of looking into asking to home educate my child one day a week (flexi friday) . The reasons are due to issues from Aspergers and attachment issues.
I'm just looking for anyone's Scottish experience or perspective please to help inform my approach to the school and education authority. Thanks

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Lovelyveg82 · 17/03/2023 13:24

will he attending a school where he gets support? If so, to what extent?

Awumminnscotland · 17/03/2023 13:44

She's at school already. P2.

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Awumminnscotland · 17/03/2023 13:45

Lovelyveg82 · 17/03/2023 13:24

will he attending a school where he gets support? If so, to what extent?

She attends a once fortnightly social skills group.

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NimbleKnitter · 17/03/2023 13:50

Edinburgh council has a page on their website about it which might be helpful (I know a few P1s currently flexi schooling on a Friday to go to forest school)

www.edinburgh.gov.uk/schools-learning/home-education

LaviniasBigBloomers · 17/03/2023 13:52

Might it be helpful to say what authority you're in?

I know it's fairly easy and quite common in Edinburgh and Fife, but that won't help you if you're in Aberdeen...

Awumminnscotland · 17/03/2023 13:54

Thanks for replies! Inverclyde.

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Lovelyveg82 · 17/03/2023 13:55

It doesn’t sound like the school is perhaps the best fit for her generally

Awumminnscotland · 17/03/2023 14:00

Yes it's mentioned on the education website but I haven't heard of anybody doing it. I know of one person who home educated for a year because of similar issues. She needs to be in school but also needs extra help with attachment issues like needing lots of connection to reduce anxiety and actually process learning to a deeper level to be able to actually apply it in practice I think. Me being able to connect with her on a learning capacity will help consolidate and assess where she needs more help. She masks and internalised very much.

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Awumminnscotland · 17/03/2023 14:02

Thank you, I've seen this. I was just looking for some possible personal experiences.

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Awumminnscotland · 17/03/2023 14:15

Lovelyveg82 · 17/03/2023 13:55

It doesn’t sound like the school is perhaps the best fit for her generally

Thanks for reply. Why do you think this may be the case? It's the local school and applies the Scottish curriculum which is meant to centre the child. My thinking is it'll be the same fight whichever school she's in..

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Lovelyveg82 · 17/03/2023 14:17

Awumminnscotland · 17/03/2023 14:15

Thanks for reply. Why do you think this may be the case? It's the local school and applies the Scottish curriculum which is meant to centre the child. My thinking is it'll be the same fight whichever school she's in..

Once a fortnight social skills and absolutely nothing else?

Im in England and my ADHD received far far more support in primary

Awumminnscotland · 17/03/2023 14:19

Also, given her challenges, changing school and a whole new set of relationships would be a total last resort I think.

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LaviniasBigBloomers · 17/03/2023 14:22

Awumminnscotland · 17/03/2023 14:00

Yes it's mentioned on the education website but I haven't heard of anybody doing it. I know of one person who home educated for a year because of similar issues. She needs to be in school but also needs extra help with attachment issues like needing lots of connection to reduce anxiety and actually process learning to a deeper level to be able to actually apply it in practice I think. Me being able to connect with her on a learning capacity will help consolidate and assess where she needs more help. She masks and internalised very much.

I think flexi-schooling would be perfect for her in that case, so fingers crossed. It's not a fight to get it here in Edinburgh and hopefully will be smooth for you too. I know a couple of adoptees with attachment problems and they flexi, though they do mid-week which seems to stop anxiety building up - it's always just a couple of days until the next flexi day or the weekend, if that makes sense.

Kaffiene · 17/03/2023 14:22

East Lothian historically very anti, not sure if that has changed with the new head of education. Makes not sense when we are so close to Edinburgh who are very accommodating. Seems to be very area specific

Awumminnscotland · 17/03/2023 14:41

LaviniasBigBloomers · 17/03/2023 14:22

I think flexi-schooling would be perfect for her in that case, so fingers crossed. It's not a fight to get it here in Edinburgh and hopefully will be smooth for you too. I know a couple of adoptees with attachment problems and they flexi, though they do mid-week which seems to stop anxiety building up - it's always just a couple of days until the next flexi day or the weekend, if that makes sense.

That's really helpful thank you. Yes I think the main thing is touching base with me and me being the key to accessing learning more effectively for her.

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Awumminnscotland · 17/03/2023 14:43

Kaffiene · 17/03/2023 14:22

East Lothian historically very anti, not sure if that has changed with the new head of education. Makes not sense when we are so close to Edinburgh who are very accommodating. Seems to be very area specific

Interesting. Yes it seems v area specific. I've heard nothing re my area so it may be relatively untested.. yet!

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Awumminnscotland · 17/03/2023 14:45

Lovelyveg82 · 17/03/2023 14:17

Once a fortnight social skills and absolutely nothing else?

Im in England and my ADHD received far far more support in primary

Yes, England a whole different system I understand.

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Staggie · 17/03/2023 16:44

Sounds like the school aren't supporting your child so that should be raised. You're free to homeschool if you wish / send in some days I'm not so sure but I can't see it being a problem. You'd have to liaise closer to the school just so you can align the learning.

Staggie · 17/03/2023 17:11
  • Sounds like the school aren't supporting your child so that should be raised. You're free to homeschool if you wish (send in some days I'm not so sure but I can't see it being a problem) . You'd have to liaise closer to the school just so you can align the learning.
Awumminnscotland · 17/03/2023 17:25

Thank you. I feel they're supporting her as much as they can with the issues that could affect her learning. She's academically able, and there's no issues from their perspective with her work and progress. But she has no real friends, lacks interaction in class, but manages to function on her own terms and is not disruptive. She is also very articulate and can be v funny. The issues I want to support really can only come from me, I think, as her family knows her best and she's a different child at home.
Her lack ofvs3lf esteem and sense of self-worth stems from attachment issues which really can't be improved by school.
I really want her to do better than just getting by as she has a good brain. And that means making connection and reducing anxiety a priority.

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Awumminnscotland · 17/03/2023 17:26

And yes we have raised issues in regular reviews. They see frw issues and I feel they won't until its too late.

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museumum · 17/03/2023 17:32

I know 2 people who did it here in Edinburgh. One due to ASD and the other from a Scandinavian family who weren’t sure about starting formal school so early. Both families took Fridays off to do outdoor education activities. Both very happy with it.

Awumminnscotland · 17/03/2023 17:53

museumum · 17/03/2023 17:32

I know 2 people who did it here in Edinburgh. One due to ASD and the other from a Scandinavian family who weren’t sure about starting formal school so early. Both families took Fridays off to do outdoor education activities. Both very happy with it.

Thank you! Edinburgh sounds like it's very onboard. I'm not sure Inverclyde is the same but these responses have helped me know my idea is not completed off the wall so gives me confidence to sort a proposal and approach the school at next review.

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