We've gotten DC a tutor (will try to be vague in case tutor is on here!)
I'm in two minds regarding this tutor though.
I found him online, and he does online tuition which DC wants as they dont doesn't feel comfortable going to a strangers house. The tutor has a PHD in English so seems to know his subject. Tutor has over 100 positive reviews. Tutor is £20 an hour which is cheaper than others who are £50 an hour. Tutor sent a whole bunch of useful resources for DC to use and asked a lot of questions about what DC was studying - all good.
But in the first call, the tutor was swearing. DC found it funny but I'm not so sure? He told DC their school was sht and he knew DCs teacher who is a little btch. DC laughed and agreed. I suppose its one way to build rapport?
DC said afterwards they found the tutor pushy - if DC didn't know an answer, the tutor would tell them "yes you do, think" and go silent until DC came up with something. DC did not like this. DC also says they did not go over what they had asked to go over. But tutor has given good resources and relevant homework.
Then I googled the tutor and 10 years ago the tutor was in court and got community service for assault against a partner - first offence.
DH says I'm worrying too much - the tutor is well qualified in their field, available, low cost, has 100+ positive reviews, just needs time to get to know DC, people change and the community service was 10 years ago, its online so dont need to meet in person, its only a few sessions until prelims and can always change to another tutor afterwards, DC needs someone who pushes them etc
What do I do, do I give the person the benefit of the doubt?