Posting here in case things are different in other parts of the UK.
Please help us before my entire family explodes with stress.
My elderly aunt needs to go into a care home. She's 97, currently in hospital and not well enough to be moved into a care home. But she won't be back in her own home sadly.
She's been assessed as needing nursing care and we've got her name down for a couple of suitable places when she's ready to move.
My poor dad is responsible, has POA all sorted, has managed her affairs for a while.
Aunt has some savings and a house to sell.
Dad has got it into his head that when she's used up all her money he'll need to pay top up fees for her. He's seen this in a care home contract.
But that's not compulsory, right? Can a care home make you agree to that? I thought not, but once your self funding runs out you might be moved to wherever the council agrees to fund you.
Please can someone explain in plain English how this works? I thought I had understood it but my dad is convinced I'm wrong. I suspect this care home he's talking about are not taking the time to explain all the options and are maybe pushing this commitment to top up fees.
In reality she might never be well enough to get to a home but it would be good to understand all our options all the same. It would save a lot of worry.
Thank you so much.