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Is this essential care?

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covidquestionplease · 04/10/2020 08:58

I'm due a baby next month and also have a 4yo DS. My DH won't be able to take any paternity leave (other than for labour / coming home from hospital).
If my mum, MIL, SIL were to come round to help me a bit (at different times from each other) would that be counted as essential care do you think?
I had a terrible labour / recovery with DS, breastfeeding didn't go well and I was in a lot of pain and heavily bleeding for weeks. My DH had a month off at that time so he looked after us.
Worried that I'll feel unwell again and have no help.

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Scotslassie1 · 04/10/2020 09:07

Yes, please don't worry. I'm sure that will be absolutely fine.

waitforitwaitforit · 04/10/2020 09:07

Of course it's essential.

covidquestionplease · 04/10/2020 09:14

I'm so lucky I have family who are willing and able to help out. It's such a worrying time to be having a baby but I need to count my blessings.
Maybe this labour and recovery will be easier (I say hopefully!)
Thanks for your replies.

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MJMG2015 · 04/10/2020 09:20

I hope this labour is far easier on you!

Personally I'd try to limit the number of people in & out of the house, especially if they're working/shopping/socialising. Not easy when everyone wants to help/cuddle the baby!

You, 4yo DS, newborn... someone would have to be pretty heartless to say some help isn't essential IF you want it

Take care & best wishes!

covidquestionplease · 04/10/2020 09:24

Thank you!
We have a huge family so sadly the wider family won't be able to visit but I'm sure they will understand.

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BrazenlyDefying · 04/10/2020 10:09

Of course that's fine. All the best for your new baby!

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