I'm due a baby next month and also have a 4yo DS. My DH won't be able to take any paternity leave (other than for labour / coming home from hospital).
If my mum, MIL, SIL were to come round to help me a bit (at different times from each other) would that be counted as essential care do you think?
I had a terrible labour / recovery with DS, breastfeeding didn't go well and I was in a lot of pain and heavily bleeding for weeks. My DH had a month off at that time so he looked after us.
Worried that I'll feel unwell again and have no help.