Hi I live in Dumfries and Galloway! I work in the town but wouldn’t live there. I live about 15 miles out in the country side so a 30 minute commute into town everyday due to having to go slow on single track roads before getting on the main road.
Lochside is definitely a rougher area. Lots of teens have been causing trouble there for my friends last year by smashing their cars, citing tyres and being loud and loitering in the streets. They also tend to hang around the car park at the big Tesco and harass customers. There is really nothing to do here for teens so I can’t blame them for being bored.
There are plenty of clubs for adults like book club at Annan library, camera club, knitting towards castle Douglas but you’d need to hunt for them and likely travel to them. Not much in Dumfries town itself. Shopping is dire. Debenhams is on its last legs. We have an m and s but tiny and I don’t know how long that’ll be around. Plenty of supermarkets though and things like b and m bargains and home bargains and the range, Wilkes, Homebase etc. Also garden centres a plenty. All scattered around the town so you’d need to drive to various retail parks. Plenty to do for younger kids in the way of parks and farm parks etc if you had family or friends visiting with kids.
I live out in a very rural part of the country side and I love it for the quiet. I do need to travel to get everywhere though. Have to go all the way into town if I want milk! I make sure I collect it on my commute home though to avoid unnecessary trips. I’ve actually put on a lot of weight since moving here as I barely walk now with having to drive everywhere!
So, I think your experience of Dalry as a child is not comparable to how life will be now in Lochside. Dalry or another semi rural area would be lovely but lonely unless you made the effort to travel to clubs, shopping etc. You’ll have more space and quiet somewhere rural outside of the town.
Living in Lochside would be busier, noisier, higher risk of being harassed by the aforementioned teens or their parents. I wouldn’t live there.
What is it you’re looking for specifically? Do you want somewhere busy or quiet?