Alwaysinahurrynow I hope you don't mind me hijacking your thread! Hopefully some of it is useful you you too!
I don't think my DS needs a 1-1. I don't know what he needs tbh - but he does need someone to be looking at what help he needs in the classroom to access learning.
Our school also said they'd give him a computer to work on - except they don't have funding for any right now
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His reading is excellent for his age as is his maths. He's also interested in history and science.
But - his writing is very poor indeed. And it's not just that he finds it hard, it's that he is really resistant to writing on paper. I'm not sure which is cause and which is effect there.
He finds it hard to remember what he should be doing, to stay focused and on task (the paediatrician we saw seemed to think ASD but I suspect maybe also ADHD).
So although he's bright, he's not getting much work actually done at school. And, because not much is in his book, he's not progressing and is being held back on levels that are too easy for him, so he's getting bored and switching off. For example. he used to be taken out for class for extra maths as he was one of the most able for maths. But now our school's funding's been slashed, there's no extra maths.
His current teacher is asking him to repeat what he did in the maths club in class, but because he's not doing it, the teacher can't see evidence of his ability so won't give him work that challenges him. She says he has to do the work to catch up - but that's not appropropriate as the getting it on paper is the issue. Giving him more work to just get to the level he should be at is counterproductive. He's simply being turned off a subject he used to love.
This last year in particular his attitude to school has really changed, he's not enjoying learning any more, which is such a shame as he's so bright and interested in the world. Thankfully he still loves reading.
He also doesn't find it the easiest to make friends and I suspect that may get more pronounced the older he gets.
The provision is not ideal where we are, but we are at least moving towards diagnosis with the local NHS services. He's on the SEN register. Whatever happens we'll be moving soon though, possibly summer.
Is the situation worse in Scotland than here?