My partner and I agreed that I would be a SAHM until our daughter was 3. He owns very well, money is not a concern at all. He boasts about his earnings. He has multiple streams of income. His bills are split with his mum, who owns half of his property. So his outgoing are very low.
He didn't want me to have financial access to his money so every month he would give me a set amount. This month I'm a little bit low, which he knows so I've asked for my money 2 days early. He asks why and he will send it in his own time, I usually have to ask him repeatedly. It seems that every time I ask for money, regardless of whether it is early or not he becomes very moody and critises my spending. It isn't a large amount. He's always spending a large amount on unnecessary things, we currently have a sauna built in our garden, for him but was reluctant to get our daughter a £2.50 toy grabber from Sealife center, which we had free tickets for.
I'm currently looking for work however, I am very restricted as his hobbies and work take up 90% of the week. No family to help with nursery pick up and drop-offs. He won't sacrifice any of his time. I do enjoy being home with my little one.
Does anyone else have a similar issue? I have tried to speak to him but it goes over his head.