At a crossroads

[pinkbunnylugs]

I’m 30. Got two girls (3 & 6). For the first time in a long time I can focus on my career (holistic therapist). I enjoy it, it pays ok for the time. But I don’t feel “happy”. I’m full on questions - is this what I want to do? I would rather aim higher for a career, maybe retrain while the kids are young? But also…I’m wondering about having one more baby. I feel like it’s now or never due to age gaps. Husband is on the fence as he’s older.

Does anyone have any advice?! I feel quite conflicted

[AnneLovesGilbert]

Do you know what would make you happy? Can you put yourself forward a year, or 5 and picture what your day will look and feel like and see which path would help you get there?

[pinkbunnylugs]

@AnneLovesGilbert I have many interests so this is a tricky one for me! But thank you I’ll will give it some thought :)

[Luredbyapomegranate]

Career shifters is quite a good organisation for figuring out what you want to do.

I would not have another baby - it will make doing anything way more difficult, it’s v bad for the planet and (kindly) it’s something people sometimes do when their youngest kid is approaching school age, because they are panicked about change.

[pinkbunnylugs]

@Luredbyapomegranate yes I have wondered that - whether it’s because I’m scared of the next change… but I’m not one to be afraid. I’m quite bold. I always wanted a large family but I know the realities are very different