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Raising family by the seaside

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Spanieljoker · 05/05/2026 12:41

I live in London and have two daughters (3 and 1). Will possibly have a third in the future.
I have always loved the idea of living by the seaside. My husband loves the countryside and his craving for a big garden and some land. I love the countryside too and traditional cottages.
We are planning a move, anywhere in the UK. Should be close to the seaside and rural. I have been looking to places like Devon and Cornwall for example. Our budget would be max. £1.2 million.
where would you go if it was your choice? We want to raise the children in the nature but their academic future is also important for us.

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Spanieljoker · 06/05/2026 20:01

JohnofWessex · 06/05/2026 19:31

It depends on what you like BUT the further you go towards the fringes that longer and slower the journey out gets.

I used to live in Bristol, a few minutes drive from a motorway and twenty minutes walk from Temple Meads station. The world was my oyster.

Even in Frome its not as easy to get around.

When I was in a hamlet outside Frome there was a very limited bus service and nowhere I could reach on foot safely so even milk or papers meant driving

Also think of your children, will they want to stay in the sticks when they grow up, will you spend your time driving them around or worse still worry about them driving on country roads

I lived in the Cotswolds. Nothing around us and I had to drive for everything, I didn’t mind. I’m genuinely tired of city life now and want to live in a hamlet again with no neighbours and noise. But I worry for my children of course so it is a very difficult decision to take

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Spanieljoker · 06/05/2026 20:02

Port1aCastis · 06/05/2026 17:19

I'm Cornish born and bred and have always lived by the sea, I was in London earlier this year and hated it there. I went to primary school her in my village but went private school in Truro but always came home at the weekends.

Rural or costal town? How did you feel about it when you were a teenager

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MrsCarmelaSoprano · 06/05/2026 20:58

Spanieljoker · 06/05/2026 20:01

I lived in the Cotswolds. Nothing around us and I had to drive for everything, I didn’t mind. I’m genuinely tired of city life now and want to live in a hamlet again with no neighbours and noise. But I worry for my children of course so it is a very difficult decision to take

They're small now but in a few years they will be teens and bored teens find trouble fast,plus being their taxi driver will get old very quickly.

Hoanna · 06/05/2026 22:47

You can go anywhere ....do you know what kind of lifestyle you want? Obviously your children won't have a clue because you will raise them into the style of life when you move

Spanieljoker · 07/05/2026 08:09

Hoanna · 06/05/2026 22:47

You can go anywhere ....do you know what kind of lifestyle you want? Obviously your children won't have a clue because you will raise them into the style of life when you move

This!
my husband keeps telling me they won’t know any better 😂
I have this gut feeling that this is the life we need to have

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Cornishgetmeoutofere · 07/05/2026 08:24

ExperiencedTeacher · 06/05/2026 16:46

Recent family experience of Cornwall for schools, especially secondary, was poor. Options for post 16 very limited.

True! We will have to move out of the County for decent Post 16 (can't wait)

Spanieljoker · 07/05/2026 08:27

Cornishgetmeoutofere · 07/05/2026 08:24

True! We will have to move out of the County for decent Post 16 (can't wait)

Where are you planning to go?

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Cornishgetmeoutofere · 07/05/2026 08:37

Likely Exeter for a good mix of coastal / countryside / culture and good education.

However, we both work in London remotely so the Kent coast would be better for opportunities (work, education and events) and easier travel.

A big factor for us is healthcare. When living in Cornwall you dread needing urgent hospital care.

houseofisms · 07/05/2026 09:30

I moved to brixham in Devon 2 years ago. Seals and dolphins, 5 min walk to nearest beach. The town is thriving and becoming more vibrant every year

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