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Where to go to escape gentrification/‘daaarrrling’ brigade?

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Warrick23 · 22/12/2025 14:59

Currently south east, finance-working Waterloo commuter - but not for much longer!

Taking Vol. Redundancy and will be retraining (maths teacher training) in Sept 26. Want to then look for secondary schools somewhere rural (I love walking and lived in a Devon village as a kid) in England (elderly parents down south so need to stay in England/Wales I think). Know I’m swapping one set of long hours (8.00 - 20/22.00)for another but looking forward to doing something less robotic/grey.

Not interested in ‘naice’/‘it’s just like London/south east’ type places and got no kids so schools (other than working in one) not an issue. I don’t drink coffee either so no ‘cafe culture’ required!

Just had enough of long hours, soul
less work/how busy it all is and the way people talk endlessly (just endured a fortnight of Xmas parties) about their “role/career” as though it’s something far more than a job; final straw was when someone introduced a friend last week (with what seemed like genuine sincerity) as ‘one of the leading online marketing experts of his generation’ last week.

I’d also like a pub that just serves beer without a fuss/a back story/an autobiography about the landlord and landlady etc. In short, I’m out of patience with all the braying south east BS and noisy self-importance.

If you live in the south east are are not like this (or I’ve got it all wrong and everyone is really actually modest and softly spoken but just comes across lile this sometimes) then I apologise - perhaps it’s simply my town/line of work - but it does feel pretty pervasive.

So, do you live in a rural place where there isn’t a Waitrose, where no one puts their hands on their hips/in their belt when they talk, no one wears red trousers, where people use their voice at a moderate volume in public/on their phone and can discuss something other than themselves/how important their work is or skiing - and there’s a normal (ungastro-ed) pub?

Thanks.

GS

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OhDear111 · 27/12/2025 15:08

@FancyCatSlaveBut if you don’t know how to pronounce Belvoir, best avoid!

Nellieinthebarn · 28/12/2025 11:25

Forest of Dean. Rural, walks a plenty, nearest Waitrose is Gloucester. I believe they do have about three secondary schools, and more just outside in Ross on Wye. It might be a bit too far the other way from Naice though. Don't get me wrong, I like it now, but I came from the South East corner and found it a culture shock to say the least. Trying not to be offensive to the natives, who are by and large lovely, but I would describe it as rural rough. There is an honesty about it though, and its certainly is not gentrified. But in a good way, mostly.

macshoto · 09/02/2026 16:32

Lifeisnotalwaysfair · 22/12/2025 15:26

Anywhere in Shropshire. Avoiding the towns of Shrewsbury and Ludlow.

Would agree with this. The Marches area of Shropshire, Herefordshire and Powys is quite real and un-gentrified still.

ClawsandEffect · 09/02/2026 16:36

North East. I moved here from the SE as a teacher and loved it. Proper solid working class, wonderful kids. Yes, the work is brutal, but that is teaching unfortunately. My god though, I knew everyday that I was making a difference.

I've aged out of in school teaching now and honestly, my life has lost meaning without it.

The bonus of the North East is that houses are cheap. As a teacher you can get a good sized home in an OK area for a sensible price too.

Excellent teacher training up here too.

Only downside is the shit weather, but hey, global warming is going to hit here, last.

SelbourneIdentity · 05/03/2026 18:58

Don't knock Waitrose. Our nearest market town is the least glamorous in SW England. It is relentlessly ungentrified, rains every day and it's shops and bakeries are stuck in the 1970s (and not in good way). The further you go from London and semi-rural prettiness, the more you need to know that you can buy black garlic paste and Hunza apricots if ever you need to. In a rural retail wasteland, having access to a Waitrose- even if you never shop there- is some protection against missing the bright lights and buyer's regret. I should think the same is true in Booths localities.

We moved back to Devon after decades away. It's glorious and makes me happy every day to have left the shiny, skinny, precious, bunting-draped, hipster-baked, XC90-obsessed Test Valley. I know I've come home. But having a Waitrose within 15 minutes is actually pretty nice and I've no desire to see it leave.

DH and I sometimes wile away time thinking which businesses we would like to see move into our nearby town. We aren't aspiring to Gail's or Ole & Steen, but would be thrilled with Reeves bakery and a Pizza Express!

LancashireButterPie · 31/03/2026 08:32

AllJoyAndNoFun · 22/12/2025 16:05

Most of rural Dorset is quite unfashionable/ unpretentious- around Blandford?

Seriously? my in laws had a cottage in Dorset and I've never been anywhere quite so stuck up.
Bearing in mind DH is from Virginia Water, that's really saying something.
Most locals seemed to spend half an hour discussing the providence of a piece of cheese before buying it.

Pembrokeshire is stunning and the people seem normal, same with Anglesey.

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