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Any other families living in caravans/yurts/not in houses?!

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FruitPoppet · 06/02/2025 22:30

I'm a first time mum due end of March. I live in a static caravan in the South West on an organic farm and have done for over 6 years. We don't farm, just rent a feild. Myself and my partner rent a small feild that has our static and 2 other caravans in for extra space that we use as spare bedrooms and an office. We get out water from a spring, gas from a bottle are are currently on grid for electric but looking to change that soon. I have my own toilet, kitchen and washing machine but share shower facilities with other people.

Does anyone else live this way with their children? I love my way of life, I get to save and spend most of my time outdoors. But ever since I've been pregnant people are shocked that I'm planning on living this way with my baby.

Just looking to hear from others who might have raised families like this and what their experiences are!

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TreesWelliesKnees · 07/02/2025 06:43

I don't have any personal experience of this but I often dream of being off grid and would love to know how people with families manage. Things like bathing the baby could be tricky. Also nipping to get things from the other caravan might get stressful. And what happens when you want your room back to yourself at night? It could be an amazing experience for a child though - you're less likely to lose them to smartphones and crap TV. They can stargaze, and get loads of fresh air and exercise.

hattie43 · 07/02/2025 07:15

I love the romance of it but practically no not with a baby , particularly in winter .

Moonlightstars · 07/02/2025 07:56

I haven't but went to school with a lovely family with 6 kids who lived on a canal boat. Bathing will be a bit annoying but they don't need a bath every day (we went down to one bath a week when they were babies because they all had eczema and regularly baths aren't good for their skin). When camping I used to shower the babies with me so you can probably do that anyway!

CheeseSandwichU · 07/02/2025 09:52

My family bought 6 acres over 30 years ago and battled for planning permission. we were refused and my family left but i stayed, getting permission for my 2 caravans and outbuildings to be residential. now live in a 3 bed park home with my husband and three kids. water from a bore hole (pumped and filtered), mains electricity and no gas (used to have a propane bottle just for the hob) and satellite internet. septic tank sewerage.

some days it drags me down when theres endless mud, the electricity bills are enormous due to electric heating but solar is so expensive its not an option to install at the moment for us. Space is a premium now my kids are in their teens.. but i wouldn't change it for the world.

as a parent, my children have free ranged the fields from the minute they could toddle, roaming in the sunshine bare footed between our horses, When they were babies i could leave them outside in their prams or bassinets with relevent fly net/sun protection to sleep and watch the clouds, breathing air directly from the trees.. they have such a fascination with nature and when we talk about their childhoods they always say that they just remember this feeling of freedom. ive got so many films of them creative playing as adventurers, eating grass and making dens. (two boys and one girl). we taught them to grow food - the most basic of food because i dont have a lot of time.. things like potatos and salad and spinach.. they loved it.

one particular story springs to mind .. it was late summer and a local farmer to us had 4 new calves delivered who decided to go looking for their mum. his fencing wasnt up to much and by 5pm ish they had found their way into our field. cows are so dangerous at the best of times so distressed huge baby calves are just the worst. my kids were out. in the field, playing some game with guns and sticks when 4 cows appear. distressed and flighty. my big mare rounded up the cows and kept herself between the kids and the cows while my husband and i rushed up to get them calmly and safely back into the house until the farmer could come and get them. my mare was 30 at the time, and had watched my children grow. at the time they were older primary/young secondary age. she just knew to protect them and the kids knew to listen to her. they always say that in that moment they knew that she loved them like they were her babies. and i love that story. i love that they will have that memory forever.

as a mum, use your space creatively and dont buy into all the unnecessary baby gadgets that take up your cupboard and counter space. baby 1 - bought all the gadgets like nappy wrapping machine, separate bottle steriliser blah blah, reality was i just needed my normal bin, a kettle, microwave and some milton. next 2 i was much more sensible.

our washing machine and tumbler are also outside in an outhouse and ive never really considered it to be tricky or arkward unless its pouring down with rain - its no more difficult than bringing laundry down stairs to me. in fact i'd prob find the stairs more tricky haha. its really hard to battle damp/mould in the wnter when drying loads of baby clothes so a tumbler or a dehumidifier will be a good investment.

you can do it!

PS ive lurked mumsnet for years but this post made me sign up .. you can do it. a caravan is a home on a chassis.. but still a home.

Andoutcomethewolves · 07/02/2025 10:04

Hi Op! I don't have kids but grew up like this - my parents were (are) new age travellers and raised four kids in a range of vehicles/caravans etc. It was a mix of being on the road in the UK, Europe and North Africa and just living in one spot for longer periods.

Not going to say there weren't negatives (two adults and four kids from toddler to mid-teen in a bus was obviously a bit of a squeeze!) but we made it work and overall I'm so so happy that I had the childhood I did.

Now as an adult, a lot of my friends live like this with their kids and again, overall it seems incredibly positive for all 😊. Happy to answer any questions you might have from the POV of the child in this situation!

sixtyandfabulousofcourse · 07/02/2025 10:42

not children but for a few years lived like this until I went to live with a partner in an artic lorry touring Europe for a few years, similar kind of life I guess. it can be tough at times especially until you get into it but I would do it again in a heartbeat. I don't think my present partner would do it but if it was tempting enough!
I think it is a question of firstly prioritising things you do not need half of what you think you need especially with babies but that stands wherever you live.
you need to plan for all weathers very hot weather, very wet weather and of course currently with all the winds how to make sure your living van is secure. you would be amazed how much these can shift around.
I think you are giving a child a precious gift that cannot be replicated in any other sort of living arrangement

HungerGames · 07/02/2025 10:48

I think I would have loved this when I was young like you, but not now I'm in my 60s. So maybe have a plan for when you get old? You are definitely not as hardy as you age.

FruitPoppet · 07/02/2025 18:05

CheeseSandwichU · 07/02/2025 09:52

My family bought 6 acres over 30 years ago and battled for planning permission. we were refused and my family left but i stayed, getting permission for my 2 caravans and outbuildings to be residential. now live in a 3 bed park home with my husband and three kids. water from a bore hole (pumped and filtered), mains electricity and no gas (used to have a propane bottle just for the hob) and satellite internet. septic tank sewerage.

some days it drags me down when theres endless mud, the electricity bills are enormous due to electric heating but solar is so expensive its not an option to install at the moment for us. Space is a premium now my kids are in their teens.. but i wouldn't change it for the world.

as a parent, my children have free ranged the fields from the minute they could toddle, roaming in the sunshine bare footed between our horses, When they were babies i could leave them outside in their prams or bassinets with relevent fly net/sun protection to sleep and watch the clouds, breathing air directly from the trees.. they have such a fascination with nature and when we talk about their childhoods they always say that they just remember this feeling of freedom. ive got so many films of them creative playing as adventurers, eating grass and making dens. (two boys and one girl). we taught them to grow food - the most basic of food because i dont have a lot of time.. things like potatos and salad and spinach.. they loved it.

one particular story springs to mind .. it was late summer and a local farmer to us had 4 new calves delivered who decided to go looking for their mum. his fencing wasnt up to much and by 5pm ish they had found their way into our field. cows are so dangerous at the best of times so distressed huge baby calves are just the worst. my kids were out. in the field, playing some game with guns and sticks when 4 cows appear. distressed and flighty. my big mare rounded up the cows and kept herself between the kids and the cows while my husband and i rushed up to get them calmly and safely back into the house until the farmer could come and get them. my mare was 30 at the time, and had watched my children grow. at the time they were older primary/young secondary age. she just knew to protect them and the kids knew to listen to her. they always say that in that moment they knew that she loved them like they were her babies. and i love that story. i love that they will have that memory forever.

as a mum, use your space creatively and dont buy into all the unnecessary baby gadgets that take up your cupboard and counter space. baby 1 - bought all the gadgets like nappy wrapping machine, separate bottle steriliser blah blah, reality was i just needed my normal bin, a kettle, microwave and some milton. next 2 i was much more sensible.

our washing machine and tumbler are also outside in an outhouse and ive never really considered it to be tricky or arkward unless its pouring down with rain - its no more difficult than bringing laundry down stairs to me. in fact i'd prob find the stairs more tricky haha. its really hard to battle damp/mould in the wnter when drying loads of baby clothes so a tumbler or a dehumidifier will be a good investment.

you can do it!

PS ive lurked mumsnet for years but this post made me sign up .. you can do it. a caravan is a home on a chassis.. but still a home.

Thank you for this lovely reply. Such lovely stories about your kids x

I've definitely not bought into the fad of gadgets. I have a sling, a next to me crib, a push chair, a bath, and a baby bouncer for when she's a bit bigger. Hoping to breastfeed so haven't even considered a steriliser, but we have a microwave so it wouldn't be too much stress.

I think I'm defo just feeling the pressure to conform from people that don't matter to me. Our family and friends are supportive mostly, and my mum is even going to come and stay for a month in her camper van when the baby is here! We've made such an effort to make our little metal box a home over the years and it's warm and dry and our garden is epic.

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FruitPoppet · 07/02/2025 18:17

Thank you for your lovely and thoughtful replies. I was half expecting a MN lynch mob telling me I'm doing all wrong.. The third trimester hormones leaving me feeling quite exposed 🫣

We've been here through every season multiple times now so am pretty happy with how to adapt to weather conditions. I think winters could be rough with a toddler, but only time will tell! We're also not shut off from being semi nomadic.. Were keen festival goers and would love to see more of Europe. It feels like not having mortgage costs to tie us down right now, makes all of these possibilities achievable.

Our plan is to buy a house with my mum eventually, as she has a condition that will eventually leave her needed full time care.

I really do appreciate what you've all said. And deep down I've felt like I'm doing okay and right for my child, but just sometimes the doubt of others just creeps in!

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catin8oots · 07/02/2025 18:26

This sounds like a dram to me but sorry if I haven't read your OP carefully - how do you support yourselves? Do you both work?

FruitPoppet · 07/02/2025 18:37

catin8oots · 07/02/2025 18:26

This sounds like a dram to me but sorry if I haven't read your OP carefully - how do you support yourselves? Do you both work?

Yes both work full time. Although I will be on Mat leave soon.

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Overtheatlantic · 07/02/2025 18:48

I have no experience but just want to wish you all the best with your baby and your lovely lifestyle.

catin8oots · 07/02/2025 18:51

Also that should have said DREAM not dram 🤦🏼‍♀️

Cavalierchaos · 09/02/2025 00:01

I just wanted to say I loved reading the posts on this thread. Very eye-opening to a different way of livings. I love having my house but also a bit envious of your freedom.

Whatisthisbs · 09/02/2025 00:51

I would absolutely love to do this. I'm very jealous of your fabulous life OP. Although I would have many many dogs 🐕 😅. Good luck !

Queenieoh · 13/02/2025 19:03

CheeseSandwichU · 07/02/2025 09:52

My family bought 6 acres over 30 years ago and battled for planning permission. we were refused and my family left but i stayed, getting permission for my 2 caravans and outbuildings to be residential. now live in a 3 bed park home with my husband and three kids. water from a bore hole (pumped and filtered), mains electricity and no gas (used to have a propane bottle just for the hob) and satellite internet. septic tank sewerage.

some days it drags me down when theres endless mud, the electricity bills are enormous due to electric heating but solar is so expensive its not an option to install at the moment for us. Space is a premium now my kids are in their teens.. but i wouldn't change it for the world.

as a parent, my children have free ranged the fields from the minute they could toddle, roaming in the sunshine bare footed between our horses, When they were babies i could leave them outside in their prams or bassinets with relevent fly net/sun protection to sleep and watch the clouds, breathing air directly from the trees.. they have such a fascination with nature and when we talk about their childhoods they always say that they just remember this feeling of freedom. ive got so many films of them creative playing as adventurers, eating grass and making dens. (two boys and one girl). we taught them to grow food - the most basic of food because i dont have a lot of time.. things like potatos and salad and spinach.. they loved it.

one particular story springs to mind .. it was late summer and a local farmer to us had 4 new calves delivered who decided to go looking for their mum. his fencing wasnt up to much and by 5pm ish they had found their way into our field. cows are so dangerous at the best of times so distressed huge baby calves are just the worst. my kids were out. in the field, playing some game with guns and sticks when 4 cows appear. distressed and flighty. my big mare rounded up the cows and kept herself between the kids and the cows while my husband and i rushed up to get them calmly and safely back into the house until the farmer could come and get them. my mare was 30 at the time, and had watched my children grow. at the time they were older primary/young secondary age. she just knew to protect them and the kids knew to listen to her. they always say that in that moment they knew that she loved them like they were her babies. and i love that story. i love that they will have that memory forever.

as a mum, use your space creatively and dont buy into all the unnecessary baby gadgets that take up your cupboard and counter space. baby 1 - bought all the gadgets like nappy wrapping machine, separate bottle steriliser blah blah, reality was i just needed my normal bin, a kettle, microwave and some milton. next 2 i was much more sensible.

our washing machine and tumbler are also outside in an outhouse and ive never really considered it to be tricky or arkward unless its pouring down with rain - its no more difficult than bringing laundry down stairs to me. in fact i'd prob find the stairs more tricky haha. its really hard to battle damp/mould in the wnter when drying loads of baby clothes so a tumbler or a dehumidifier will be a good investment.

you can do it!

PS ive lurked mumsnet for years but this post made me sign up .. you can do it. a caravan is a home on a chassis.. but still a home.

I absolutely loved this message @CheeseSandwichU 💜

Randomusername37258 · 13/02/2025 19:18

Just to add to this, the main thing that you need to be focusing on is getting the temp right. Kids are much more sensitive to hot and cold than adults. I found mine got cold hands and feet especially in the static. Other than that, sounds hard work but worth the effort! We've only done it for a few months at a time but loved the freedom.

HorsesForMorses · 22/12/2025 09:23

Hi OP,

I hope your birth went well and that you've enjoyed your baby's first months. Merry Christmas.

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