Meet the Other Phone. Only the apps you allow.

Meet the Other Phone.
Only the apps you allow.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Rural living

Looking to relocate to the countryside? Find advice in our Rural Living forum.

Do you feel safe?

11 replies

LadyGAgain · 25/03/2018 20:46

Hi,
Please can you help. We currently live in a village, neighbours the norm. Have seen a property which is only a mile away but is isolated. Down a private road, septic tank.
We have young children.
The owner has mentioned that he put gates at the bottom of the road to stop fly tipping.
What should we be considering? Do you feel safe living in a rural setting? I'm scared of making such a big decision and really would welcome and value some of your thoughts, opinions and experiences.
Thank you

OP posts:
Liara · 25/03/2018 20:50

Nearest village is a mile and a half away, nearest neighbour 3/4 of a mile.

I feel so safe that I never ever lock the house, and have been known to forget the car keys in the car overnight!

Round here thieves are lazy - it would be far too much work to come all the way here to steal something. Theft rates are pretty high in less isolated places.

Fly tipping can be a bit of an issue - people go for a walk, decide they want to bin something, realise there is no bin available and decide the nearest house is an appropriate place for their rubbish Hmm. But it's not a major issue, really.

user1474652148 · 25/03/2018 21:02

We had a lot bf drive and in the winter it was so dark and isolated, that said we could have just put some lights in, but didn’t. I love the rural peace and quiet but you need to be organised in the winter. Logs in bundles, extra food in winter because we are always snowed in, check there is WiFi etc.
If you are feeling worried then I would think twice. It is not for everyone. If you are considering it, do a night time drive by

user1474652148 · 25/03/2018 21:02

Long

Heratnumber7 · 25/03/2018 21:03

You're much safer in the country than you are in a built up area.

user1474652148 · 25/03/2018 21:03

I would say I do feel safe though

user1474652148 · 25/03/2018 21:04

There is virtually no crime - everyone knows each other and is happy to life side by side

user1474652148 · 25/03/2018 21:05

Mile by mile

LadyGAgain · 26/03/2018 00:07

Thanks for your responses. I hadn't considered the lazy thieves! I'm originally from a city though have lived in a village for over a decade. As a child I had easy access to public transport as well as walking distance to friends houses. I wonder if our kids will resent the isolation as will be reliant on us for lifts everywhere. It's the fear of the unknown. DH grew up in a super tiny village that had nothing, not even a corner shop so he's less concerned...

OP posts:
macshoto · 26/03/2018 06:47

One thing that made a big difference to my dw was installing a wireless driveway alarm for our 300m farm track. Our one has a PIR sensor (detects people, cars and the odd wild animal) near the gate and then a vehicle sensor nearer the house.

This means wherever you are in the house you know what's happening on our long driveway. Battery life has proved to be good - the PIR sensor is good for about 12 months and the vehicle sensor I have just changed the batteries in for the first time in ~3 years.

LadyGAgain · 26/03/2018 16:54

That's very helpful. Thank you!

OP posts:
DamsonOnThisDress · 08/05/2018 14:17

We're 3 mile from nearest village, at least 10 from nearest town.

Love it. No major issues bar those flagged up in building survey.

Our septic tank is in someone else's field - originally all one plot but fields sold off over the years so we had to make sure there was an easement in place so we had right of access to empty, etc. No problem. Solicitor sorted prior to purchase.

Get a survey and good solicitor so there's no surprises with property, boundaries, access, etc. Eg. Does anyone else have a right to use your lane? Septic tank accessible?

Our other main issue was school transport. Luckily the bus to daughter's school (10 miles away) stops right outside our house. It would have been a major pain in the backside if it didn't.

The road isn't gritted so in bad weather it's really not accessible - school buses won't even attempt to drive it - so we've been housebound a time or two. (I consider that a plus point. Grin)

Unless you know you'll always be taking kids to and from school check out bus services and transport options for them. It's definitely not handy here. If daughter misses her bus (there's only one) we have to take her/collect her which isn't always easy.

Feel very very safe. Our youngest was a bit freaked out at just how dark it got at night. You can't see past end of your nose! A good outside light helps if you need to go out to bins or car or whatever.

We definitely found living in a residential area handier but I don't regret the move. Being out on your own in the country offsets any slight inconvenience. And you're only a mile from town so not out in sticks so your petrol costs shouldn't go up too much.

New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Please create an account

To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.

This thread is closed and is no longer accepting replies. Click here to start a new thread.