Several years ago I took voluntary early release, and downsized my job to 3 evenings a week in a supermarket. 4 grandchildren in 2 years plus increased care needed for elderly parents then happened, so my plan of staying in bed late and watching Homes under the Hammer daily (my guilty pleasure when off work) never happened!
Soon I'll be eligible for my state pension and also I can keep some of my work benefits. Unfortunately they have changed the work benefits in retirement which has caused quite a kerfuffle so may change back, but I'm working on the here and now.
My fuck it date is soon, I'll be able to leave work with benefits intact but don't get my state pension until 8 months later. I'm not planning on leaving on my fuck off date, but if I get pissed off then it's an option.
I'm on a big holiday in later in the year so I'm thinking of staying until then, so I'm paid to go on holiday. I'll probably stay until I get my state pension, this is all very sensible and well thought out.
However- do I go when I get my pension, that's the problem. There's several pros and cons as follows.
Pros- I work lovely hours that suits me nicely, I get on with the people I work with, get on well with management, get a LOT of free and cheap stuff from work, which I share with friends and family, not keep all to myself.
I don't have to leave work and can carry on working, but with state pension, wages and another small pension I'll be paying tax and having to do a self assessment every year. That's not a problem, previously worked in accounts in my former life, specialising in tax and pensions funnily enough!
I could spend more evenings with my dh, although he works away on an irregular basis so that might not happen.
I can live quite happily in my wages now, so I'd save a lot of my pension for big holidays(cruises!) etc, but that will have to wait a bit as dh is younger than me and won't retire for a few years yet.
The days of the evenings that I work aren't as free as I'd like, as I've got to get everything ready for the following day, washing, dishwasher, getting ready for work, commute etc plus sort out the pets in case dh isn't home. When I don't work, I do that in the evenings.
Cons- lots less free stuff!
Will I regretting giving up my work identity?
Grandkids are all at high school now, although I've now got a young gd that I do the school run with twice a week, but that won't last forever.
I could get a lot done round the house that I don't have time for now, but when that's done then what?
The big one- another Christmas in retail, fml that's enough to try the patience of a saint, and I'm no saint!
I've worked since I was 12, with time out for maternity leave etc so sometimes I think I can't be arsed. But then.......?
Am I wanting to give up work because I can, or because I want to?